You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Absolutely. 5ft8 isn't even small. You need to be talking about 5ft7 to make a hypothesis.Yes it does.
I was in a club about 2009 ish and saw a knockout all over a guy like a kingpin.
Reminded me of the Jabba the Hut scene in Star wars.
Balding and height are the 2 biggest fallacies in game these days. Neither one completely define the all of game.
The fearful believe so.
Yeah it's all about the charisma. I know that's something you say to brush that topic off to not sound sh*tty. But it's true. I know some guys who are about 5'6 to 5'7 and they're authentic as hell. Women love them instantly.Gotcha.. i think honestly 5'5 5'6 is it but then again there are outliers.
I know this guy who is about 5'6 and crushed it. Strong as an ox.
Fast as hell too. I raced him at a golf tournament a few years back and i lost. And i was quite the gazelle in high-school college years.
Hes fit and does well.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
2009? Dating and the game has changed so much since then. It’s not even recognizable.Yes it does.
I was in a club about 2009 ish and saw a knockout all over a guy like a kingpin.
Reminded me of the Jabba the Hut scene in Star wars.
Balding and height are the 2 biggest fallacies in game these days. Neither one completely define the all of game.
The fearful believe so.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Negative.Yes. But a good face is WAY more important than a good body.
No. Either she likes you because you are buff or because you are tall. However, women are not just attracted to men because of physical features.Do you think being muscular and in very good shape makes up for height in some way?
I saw a 5ft8 guy with a absolute fukin hotty today. They was both the same height.
Looks first, then personality. Maybe he has high social status. Maybe he's cucked. No one knows.Do you think being muscular and in very good shape makes up for height in some way?
I saw a 5ft8 guy with a absolute fukin hotty today. They was both the same height.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's true, if you have the right kind of personality, you can draw people to you like magnets, women included.Yeah it's all about the charisma. I know that's something you say to brush that topic off to not sound sh*tty. But it's true. I know some guys who are about 5'6 to 5'7 and they're authentic as hell. Women love them instantly.
Or if you have enough status/money(sugar daddy), you can have a fake arm candy around you.That's true, if you have the right kind of personality, you can draw people to you like magnets, women included.
With a good posture and shoes you're easily at 5'7.I'm at 5'5", and when I get my hands on a truly hot Stacy, I'll inform you all.![]()
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That said, I have had some decent action with gals having some Stacy-esqu characteristics - but it has definitely been "once in a blue moon".![]()
The hottest women I seen were with average height guys. Mentioned this on the board years ago I'm talking 5"8 to 5"11Do you think being muscular and in very good shape makes up for height in some way?
I saw a 5ft8 guy with a absolute fukin hotty today. They was both the same height.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.