"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do you ever pretend your someone else?

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I read this book about half a year ago. and it was saying to boost your confidence find a character like in a movie you like. and act like him. and I guess its suppost to help you out. so does anyone here ever do that? also what do you think of this idea?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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What I do is picture the ideal person I want to be, and really think long and hard about how I walk, talk, behave and interract with others.

I then try and act like that person. After a while, it's no longer an act... it become who I am.

I don't want to be someone else... only the best ME i can be.
 

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Sometimes I act like the crack head from chapelles show...doesn't really aid me in scamming on the ladies, but makes for a good laugh though:crackup:
 

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I do a pretty good Tony Montana impression, so sometimes I do the persona around friends to make them laugh.
 

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I do this alot and always have. Especially movies or if i see someone who is a social master I will immitate them. It definately gives you unbeleivable confidence. Ex - I saw Mr and Mrs Smith before going to a party and I really felt like I was brad pitt at the party. I was 10x more confident then I wouldve been otherwise. However, it becomes a problem when you aren't immitating and you are unsure how to act as yourself.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i pretend to be all different people when i troll the herpes chat board.
sometimes its boring so i go liven it up a bit.
 

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At this one party I was speaking in an English accent and when girls would say "ohhhh I love your accent, where are you from?" I'd say I live in a boat just west of England, in the sea.

Man that was a fun party.
 

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I sometimes pretend I'm doctoroxygen when I don't feel like getting laid.
 

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WHen i get pulled over i pretend to be a white guy. If someone ones to fight i transform into jet li. Im pretty sweet, i can turn into anyone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i think were one bad joke away from having this added to the archive as the corniest thread ever. too bad cuz it was a good topic.
 

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Whenever somebody who starts a conversation with me and I don't want to ever see them again, I pretend to be somebody else.

My name is Sebastian Moreno.

Cool huh?
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
i pretend to be all different people when i troll the herpes chat board.
sometimes its boring so i go liven it up a bit.
When I meet girls with herpes, I pretend I'm running away very fast. No wait, I actually do.
 

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bwhahaha trolling the herpes chat board!!! hahahahaqhahahahhaahahahah


that made my day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The crack head character that Dave plays is named Tyrone....Craaaaaack rocks anyone...?:p
 
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