"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you ever have girls Bother you?

Poonani Maker

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I've got 2 girls, one I've fvcked and one I haven't fvcked, texting or emailing me to meet them somewhere almost every week since mid-August. The one I've fvcked twice, I've basically just been sooo short with on texts back to her responding with messages like, "Can't" and "Sorry." I think that finally she got the message that she's bothering me, while at work, with another woman, with friends eating. I don't like being with the same woman for very long, especially her.

Now, the other one that I haven't fvcked, BECAUSE everytime I want to see her, it's too late, or she's too tired, or she's out of town, with her girlfriend today, whatever, but everytime she wants to see me, I'm with another woman, too tired, working, or it's too early. So she messages me again today, just like 2 weeks ago, just like the week before that, and the week before, and the week before. She calls me at 7:04 AM 2 Saturdays ago, I'm like I can't understand a word this b!tch is saying like Charlie Brown's teacher over the phone. I call her Late at night when I want to come over and I guess I sound like Charlie Brown's teacher to her and she's "too tired."

Why do some women just frolick and fvck around like that, like a pest or insect, never really intending to meet you, just fvcking with you?? I don't think I should respond to her latest message. Fine bodied, 28 yr old, brunette, who holds herself to be an intellectual, sophisticated, well-read, and I agree that she is, but why is she just hoovering around in my pysche but never DOING anything about it???? This has been going on for months fellas. What's up? WHY is she making sure I see her but not ever available for me to see her? MOST girls aren't like this. I don't really even want to fvck her, afterall I have steady plates and much younger ones, I might add. Why would I waste my time with one who's almost 30 and is playing hard to get? She knows I fvck other, younger, girls. Is she just trying to make herself appear more valuable to me by never ever actually going out with me?

Here is her Exact last message:

"Hope all is well with you. I wanted to plan to see you possibly Friday. Would getting together Friday night work for you? Sorry I'm not more available but this weekend I'm alone and left to my own devices. :)

Let me know. Hope to see you!"

I think she's psychotic. I keep saying, "Maybe This time she won't flake." I bet I've said that 5 times already in regard to her over the past 2 months.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FutureSpartan

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Well if I were to look past your thinly veiled attempt at bragging, I would advise you to ignore her if she annoys you that much. Thats what most normal people do.
 

ken chang

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FutureSpartan said:
Well if I were to look past your thinly veiled attempt at bragging, I would advise you to ignore her if she annoys you that much. Thats what most normal people do.
Haha! I like this.

And I have had a similar experience a long time ago. A girl used to flirt with me all the time and make all kinds of plans but is never available. I give her the kiss test which she failed, so I nexted her. She works with me and I have now chosen to be only professionally courteous to her.

Due to this experience though, I learned that it's a bad idea to game co-workers.
 
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