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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you dudes avoid overweight chicks and why?

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jurry said:
So basically you're an unquestioning sheep who wants to be like everyone else. Sweet life man.
Absolutely. Don't make things happen, use what happens to your advantage.

I don't think you would sacrifice your money and time and blood sweat and tears to make an overweight girl feel good about herself. Maybe it's a moral victory?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Perhaps you feel society views some of you "DJs" as worthless. Since you can only try to associate with chicks you put on a pedestal to validate yourselves to yourselves and others.

For some odd reason you dudes seem to take simply talking to, or meeting, socializing with an overweight chick to mean as if you have to fvck her or she has to fvck you. There's some deep insecurities on this forum.

Maybe your self esteem has been damaged and ego bruised by some hot chick you wanted to get so bad it's to the point where you cannot envision yourselves simply making pleasantries to anyone other than your "perfect object" of a woman or paranoia sets in.

Do you also avoid all overweight people at work? Certain ethnicities? Can you not distinguish between simply talking to people and thinking you only associate with them to fvck them?
 

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I do not have sex with girls that are overweight, and that's final.

Besides, something is really wrong with a person who eats three times the amount of food she needs.

I can talk to them, and I dont avoid them, why should I do that? but no sex for sure.
 

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I'll give some contrast again I guess. Fat girls who aren't ugly/repulsive make me horny, but the ones with girlfriend potential are the ones who look good, have a great vibe, are relatively tall and have a lot of ass and legs, like the girl in white here - wouldn't hurt if she was bigger though :D. I understand that you guys equate fat with ugly, considering how fat girls tend to look (and that it takes some luck with genetics to get the look I prefer, though there are plenty of men who also like fat girls but have other preferences). I wouldn't want to touch those pudgy, ugly feminist writers you guys tend to link to either. I was born this way I think.
 

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It all depends on the mood she catches me in and how fat she is.

Last weekend three girls were hanging around me and two of them were fat. If I'd been in the mood I might've banged one of the fat ones but as it was I didn't even try with the one who wasn't fat. I regretted it the next morning when I woke up with a boner and nothing but my hand to satisfy it with, though. Gotta remember to think ahead next time.

p.s. To answer the question more directly, no I don't avoid them, but I'm also not making a beeline for them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trump said:
Absolutely. Don't make things happen, use what happens to your advantage.

I don't think you would sacrifice your money and time and blood sweat and tears to make an overweight girl feel good about herself. Maybe it's a moral victory?
Except that you would, if society valued it. Thats what you just said, that you value whatever society values. Not surprising youd rather go for a nazi, they didnt do much critical analysis either ;)
 

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Except that you would, if society valued it. Thats what you just said, that you value whatever society values. Not surprising youd rather go for a nazi, they didnt do much critical analysis either ;)
Again? What is it with you and the white boogeyman trope?

Btw it says you're 29, maybe it's time to shelve the public school indoctrination and a lifetime diet of THE BIG BAD NAZEEEES!! Hollyweird movies for a bit and actually learn what caused the native Germans to react eh?
 

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Im seeing a girl who is on the heavy side at the moment. Dont know how long its going to last as she wants a full blown LTR and i do not but i have been having sex with her for a couple months now. She is borderline between thick and crossing the fat line. She has a very pretty face but the heaviness bothers me, id be lying if i said i didnt. She showed me pictures of her in a dress from 3 years ago and i was thinking whoa!, she looked so hot then, WTF happened!. It seems she drinks too much and that adds so many calories over time. Anyway the point is,... I would rather have a slimmer chick for the long haul. I agree with the guys that said, if your attracted to her enough to fvck, then its a go. Im picky as it is with women so there has to be something about her that makes me go after her. BTW on Saturday I went out with a group of my friends and i started talking to a hot blonde from Sweden and Germany. She was a feminist, after giving me sh*t for a while, i ended the night fvcking her. She was very slim with an amazing tight ass and perky t*ts..... I prefer the slim over the chubby for sure. She looked similar to the girl on the far left http://i.imgur.com/Vlwcuwh.jpg
 

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Again? What is it with you and the white boogeyman trope?

Btw it says you're 29, maybe it's time to shelve the public school indoctrination and a lifetime diet of THE BIG BAD NAZEEEES!! Hollyweird movies for a bit and actually learn what caused the native Germans to react eh?
Jesus you're a try-hard.

White boogeyman trope? Jews are also white bud.

Did I say there was no fault on part of the jews or that there were no reason for germans to react? No, but they did murder 11 million people. But the last way I want to expend energy is gettig into an argument over the holocaust with the king of internet trolls, so spare me the history lesson and lets pretend like I was making a casual observation over Trumps lack of integrity.
 

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Jesus you're a try-hard.

White boogeyman trope? Jews are also white bud.
:crackup: According to who? Most certainly not them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TptkFd6HXhE

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so spare me the history lesson and lets pretend like I was making a casual observation over Trumps lack of integrity.
You spare us the continuous white boogeyman trope and I'll spare you the "hate facts" that don't quite gel with your cult-marx multikulti "big bad white man" public school indoctrination. Deal?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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:crackup: According to who? Most certainly not them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TptkFd6HXhE



You spare us the continuous white boogeyman trope and I'll spare you the "hate facts" that don't quite gel with your cult-marx multikulti "big bad white man" public school indoctrination. Deal?
Which public school do you know of that promotes marxism? One day you might stop the stereotype adjectives long enough to put together a coherent argument of your own.
 

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You'll forgive me if my attempt to read that undoubtedly top notch piece of reporting from "godfatherpolitics" (wtf??) was somewhat obfuscated by the onslaught of advertising that overtook my phone as soon as I scrolled down the page. Shocking that a news outlet with as sterling of a reputation as theirs would need to whôre themselves out to such a degree, eh?

What I did read amounted to overt propaganda trying to illegitimize a group from a teachers union who are also part of a marxist group? Article probably written by the charter school board of directors?

But no you're right that totally proves your point that marxism has taken over our public school system. Lol, the soviet union is over bro.. This isnt the fvcking red scare, its 2014. In case you havent been outside lately our government is bought and paid for by the richest of the rich. And yet they stay there banking on the ignorance of people who think and vote against their own interests like yourself.

There are suckers, and there are suckers. Then there is you.

Hows that for a burn fàggot.
 

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I'll let you know once I decipher it through all the impotent sh!tlib rage. :box:
(.) (.) is really naughty ninja spamming.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Another brand new sock puppet account just for little old me?

I'm honored...again. :rockon:

( . ) ( . ) has Ductal carcinoma of his alleged "brain". He's a Manosphincter spambot and the only dude who considers "seduction" posting about the feminism boogeymonster, race, h0mo agenda, and his crush on RooshV for life while living in his delusional self-important fantasyland. He should change his SS username to Blue Balls.
 

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I try to treat everyone with a baseline of respect, so yeah I will talk to a fat girl and include her in the conversation. I don't worry about what people will "think of me" if I am seen talking to a fat girl. Who gives a sh!t?

Dating is a different story. I might date her if she's a LITTLE overweight. Depends on how she looks and how she carries it.
 

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My vibe is along the same lines as Zekko. I'll talk to whomever the **** I want because I want. That's more DJ to my personal view of it than worrying about what a room full of shallow party goers think. If she's got a great face and still reasonably sized (plus size but not Jabba the Hutt) then i might hit it, but talking is no prob.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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