Do You Date Girls Who Use Drugs?

[soulforge]

Is it just me.. Or is drugs/Cocaine use the norm with hot woman these days?

Girl One - I meet her in a bar 4 weeks ago.. Age 28 and a total hotty.. End of the night I take her back to my place to bang her puzzy into next week.. She asks me if I know anyone who can deliver us some Cocaine? I told her NO.. Had sex with her and never spoke to her again.

Girl Two - She joined my company just recently and I was her manager for the initial 4 weeks of training.

Age 32, slim and a hotty.. Has worked as a tattoo model.. And hosts the odd fetish night.. She works in a completely different department from me and in a different building.. So I ended up banging her a few times.. Turns out, she likes to take Cocaine too...

Now I'm thinking whether I should keep banging or drop her azz.

I generally feel un easy around woman who take hard drugs.

However I don't want to keep losing hot azz either.

So the question is... Is drugs a big red flag for you guys?

Or do you accept that girls these days take drugs socially and we just accepted that and Date them.

 

[thinker]

@soulforge it depends on what your definition of dating is. If your thought is as a girlfriend or at least FWB that I also go out socially with then the answer is no. If on the other hand she wants to have sex from time to time and their will never be any attachment of any significance than I will do that until it runs its course which is usually 2 to 3 months at most.

 

[derby1]

when men dont hold standards chaos pursues......i welcome the collapse of the welfare system .....its going to be a joy to watch women turn virtuous and chase utility

 

[Smok1nAce]

date...never.
sleep with...its always question able but if she hot enough.

If a girl is in her early 20s doing drugs isn't necessarily a deal breaker but if a girl in her late 20s and does anything other than whats legal I would run for the hills.

 

[Robert28]

I probably have and didn’t even realize it

 

[andreihaha]

If you date them, get them on the right path.
Changing someone's life like that feels a lot better than swimming in pus5y.
If it doesn't seem to work, IT'S A TRAP! Abort the mission.

 

[Hal9000]

They can be fun for sex (really fun) but you don't want to go to sleep in the same room as a coke head. You'll eventually wake up with your wallet missing, or worse. And druggies tend to age very poorly, not to mention the other negatives of dealing with addictive personalities.

 

[soulforge]

If you date them, get them on the right path.
Changing someone's life like that feels a lot better than swimming in pus5y.
If it doesn't seem to work, IT'S A TRAP! Abort the mission.

Get them on the right path? Are you suggesting I become a captain save a hoe

Nah you can't save girls like that man.. They don't want to be saved

 

[lamath]

ONS FWB worthy but not date worthy.

Dont spend time and effort on low quality

 

[sangheilios]

If you are a man who also enjoys engaging in recreational drug use then women like that would be right up your alley.

However, as an otherwise sober and stable man you should be avoiding women like this all together. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but I've found that people who do crap like this, both women and men, generally have a ton of other issues as well and it would be in your best interest to avoid them outright. I never understood people who do stuff like this, how does one get to that stage where they hadn't questioned their actions at one point and ceased said activity. I can think of several other things that would be a far more productive use of my time, energy and resources instead of getting some high, damaging my health, wasting my money and potentially getting arrested lol.

With all that said, I recall you have posted threads about other women that were hot but also had some really off things about them. I remember there was one you mentioned was a nude model. Perhaps you are just attracted to these women that are hot and slutty looking but with serious issues, almost like a stripper or porn star.

 

[soulforge]

If you are a man who also enjoys engaging in recreational drug use then women like that would be right up your alley.

However, as an otherwise sober and stable man you should be avoiding women like this all together. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but I've found that people who do crap like this, both women and men, generally have a ton of other issues as well and it would be in your best interest to avoid them outright. I never understood people who do stuff like this, how does one get to that stage where they hadn't questioned their actions at one point and ceased said activity. I can think of several other things that would be a far more productive use of my time, energy and resources instead of getting some high, damaging my health, wasting my money and potentially getting arrested lol.

With all that said, I recall you have posted threads about other women that were hot but also had some really off things about them. I remember there was one you mentioned was a nude model. Perhaps you are just attracted to these women that are hot and slutty looking but with serious issues, almost like a stripper or porn star.

Dude honestly I have met 4 different woman in the space of 3 months who have all dabbled with cocaine.

Apart from one, on the surface they seemed normal, with good jobs.. But who the fuk knows what's going on between the ears.

The things that really put me off about chicks who use drugs.

01. They will probably lie about being addicted.. Chances are they will down play the drugs use.. Most addicts do this.

02. You get into a LTR with a chick like this, then later realise she takes drugs often.

03. Who's dik is she suking to get the drugs? I am pretty sure if push came to shove, she would exchange sexual favours for drugs.

No thanks Geoff

 

[Glassguy]

Drug use = instant dismissal from my rotation.

 

[sangheilios]

Dude honestly I have met 4 different woman in the space of 3 months who have all dabbled with cocaine.

Apart from one, on the surface they seemed normal, with good jobs.. But who the fuk knows what's going on between the ears.

The things that really put me off about chicks who use drugs.

01. They will probably lie about being addicted.. Chances are they will down play the drugs use.. Most addicts do this.

02. You get into a LTR with a chick like this, then later realise she takes drugs often.

03. Who's dik is she suking to get the drugs? I am pretty sure if push came to shove, she would exchange sexual favours for drugs.

No thanks Geoff

I obviously have no idea where you are from, but drug use is far more common than I think many are aware of. Like you, I've met and known of people, both men and women, who from the surface seem like otherwise normal and functional people. They all have careers/stable form of employment, many have degrees, a place of their own, married/live in relationships, etc. If you took it from face value they'd appear to be awesome and normal people but they are anything but. They may not necessarily be drug users, as I'm not aware if this is the case for them, but I do know that there are tons of issues behind the curtains. Lots of cheating, getting involved with scam artist con men, etc. I know one that sells steroids lol.

Without getting into a massive rant about this, I have found that those who seem to really create this perfect image of themselves, their family, marriage/relationship, etc. are usually the fakest people with a ton of issues that they hide from the world.

Here is one thing that I learned fairly young, most people are bat **** crazy.

 

[andreihaha]

Get them on the right path? Are you suggesting I become a captain save a hoe

YES I DO!
It will give you a new sense of fulfilment.
Plus, you seem (from your posts) to run into a lot of hoes. Correct me if I'm wrong. Why not at least make one small good change in the world. Won't make wou less of a MAN and will actually make you more huMAN.
Just my 2 cents.

Nah you can't save girls like that man.. They don't want to be saved

You can and the might want to. But it's hard to get out of any addiction alone.

That being said, I still support the "Don't stick your d1ck in crazy" movement. But that's another discussion, I think.

 

[illstep]

Everyone does cocaine, at least here in the SE of UK. (also mdma)

Girl Two - She joined my company just recently and I was her manager for the initial 4 weeks of training.

Give me a breakdown of how you started banging her. I'm just curious. 100% of my lays have come from me cold approaching random girls in bars, so it's alien to me how people hook up at work etc. (and I only work with me so never had the chance, really)
Who started 'flirting' first etc? how? Then waht happened. Break it down to autistic levels for me

 

[soulforge]

Everyone does cocaine, at least here in the SE of UK. (also mdma)

Girl Two - She joined my company just recently and I was her manager for the initial 4 weeks of training.

Give me a breakdown of how you started banging her. I'm just curious. 100% of my lays have come from me cold approaching random girls in bars, so it's alien to me how people hook up at work etc. (and I only work with me so never had the chance, really)
Who started 'flirting' first etc? how? Then waht happened. Break it down to autistic levels for me

I am in the UK lad.. And the amount of chiks doing coke here is pretty fukin high.

 

[soulforge]

YES I DO!
It will give you a new sense of fulfilment.
Plus, you seem (from your posts) to run into a lot of hoes. Correct me if I'm wrong. Why not at least make one small good change in the world. Won't make wou less of a MAN and will actually make you more huMAN.
Just my 2 cents.

You can and the might want to. But it's hard to get out of any addiction alone.

That being said, I still support the "Don't stick your d1ck in crazy" movement. But that's another discussion, I think.

Dude are you some kinda drug rehabilitation councillor? No.. Well neither am I and most guys outhere.

Even the professionals struggle to help get these people off drugs, so what chance have we got.

You will end up ruining yourself before you are able to save damaged chicks like this.

Are you going to forbid her from seeing her friends too? I can bet your azz these chicks have a circle of friends who also take cocaine.

In the end she will resent you for trying to save her azz.

You going square upto the dealers too, one day when you find out she picked up some cocaine from some dude.. Who probably wants to fuk her too.

You would get your azz kicked man.. Feel free to save these broken chicks..

I say no thanks Geoff.

 

[soulforge]

I'm very far from a prude when it comes to drugs, but I stopped hanging around with quite a few life-long friends when they got onto coke when I was like 17. Started getting into loads of trouble (debt, fights, etc) and started going to prison.

Don't need that sh1t in my life.

You did right man.. It's not our job to save people who chose the path of self destruction.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Get them on the right path? Are you suggesting I become a captain save a hoe

Nah you can't save girls like that man.. They don't want to be saved

Better off helping them bump their head and enacting consequences

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I am cool with weed here and there unless its something they do every day all day. There are a lot of medically relevant reasons to use it. Far better that than cigarettes which have no use other than killing yourself and causing health costs to skyrocket for everyone else.

Anything other than that is a no go for me. Honestly i don't hang out with anyone who does hard drugs, man or woman. No time in my life for that.