"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you cold approach in the day?

Do you cold approach?

  • Yes

    Votes: 7 46.7%
  • No, but want to

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • No, but used to

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • No, never

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Total voters
    15

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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I can see why it works for some guys, it just doesn't work for me. Since I have no social value when I cold approach I get shut down 100% of the time. On the other hand I can get numbers through meetup events without even trying.
 

Don-Kong

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It only doesn't work because of lack of preparation and practice.
I've lost count of the rejections I've had from chicks in coffee shops. So what.
You will fail. And some. But then, one day you do it for the rush and boom!
I've not needed to do it for a while tho, might get back at it and lend some insights and failures lol
 

TheGambino

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I only do cold approaches at day when Im dressed up well, not if im coming back from work or so. My night game is much much better since im a good dancer and the girls are more loosen up. You can kino and escalate way better in a club make eye contact - laugh - approach ask a few questions, kino and if you feel shes interested, dance and kiss close.

Daygame is small talk and a number close, I mostly want instant action
 

Mr Wright

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From my experience, you meet a better quality of girl during the day. I go out on random nights during the week sometimes but who wants to date someone who goes out clubbing on a Wednesday or Thursday?

I love approaching during the day, I enjoy it more, you can build better connections and the girls seem to like it more. It's a great skill to have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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