"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you bring up that her online dating profile is still online?

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I guess it’s no strange coincidence that those are popular date nights then…
Keep having fun with her until it’s over.
She texted me on Friday, got my period, and she started acting distant again. We chatted about a few things and she then she asked me for the recipe for what made the night before, and I'll think about it with a smiley face. She went dark through since then. I sent her the recipe to see her response, she just gave me a thumbs up.

Certainly strange. Up until Friday, she couldn't stop texted me day after day. Now, she distant again. Going to step back a bit. These ups and downs are annoying.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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