"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you bother with girls who live too far away?

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HappyHarryHardon

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I mean if you meet a girl and she lives far away like more than an hour, do you bother with her? Going on dates just to meet up would suck. Right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plutoman

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If she's fun and the outings are a decent length, then sure.

Anything over like, an hour and a half, though, and that's really pushing it.. but up to about then, with some fuzzy room either way, as long as she's fun and you aren't meeting for just coffee, is totally worth it.

I drive half hour to 45min lengths all the time, so jumping up a bit isn't all that big a deal if I'm going to be spending 6+ hours with someone. However, don't do it because you're attached to the one girl.. common fallacy is to jump for the girl that's a ways away. It's a buffer. Do away with the buffer and meet new people. And I'm presuming you met the girl in person.
 
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pdx1138

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A long long time ago, I drove 300 miles a few times with a buddy.

We both had girlfriends at a college far away.

It was fun at the time, but I wouldn't do that again.

If they don't live within 30 minutes I'm not interested.
 
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