Do you block chicks that disrespect/ghost you?

[user252009]

It's becoming way, way too common and I'm done with dealing with disrespectful b!tches that either disrespect me (also by ghosting me). Do you block these women or just remove them from your socials/numbers?

 

[SW15]

Remove from socials/delete phone number is usually sufficient.

 

[user252009]

If you instill self-respect and self control, you shouldn’t have to block or delete any number. Women always come back, why not leave the door open?

Because when they come back, they come for validation and more games, and it's gotten old and tiring and annoying as fvck

 

[MtmVaott]

I removed them completely, including chats. If you have weak moments sometimes, blocked numbers can be problematic, since they are saved in your messenger and you can recontact women that disrespected you.

 

[Murk]

I only block/delete women who harass me or turn sour, everyone else is fair game and no need to block.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I have done in the past now but I have recently acknowledged nothing is ever really gained from it

Women are very very aware ghosting and flaking annoys men and a lot will routinely use it too see if they can rattle a man

9/10 it will and the guy will either lose his **** with her or start sending more and more messages

its quite fun for woman I'd imagine its the female equivalent of a guy playing grand theft auto on x-box or playstation and getting the character to do something funny or stupid

Its a very difficult dynamic too deal with as a man especially if you like a girl

but on another level It also kind of directly opposes the abundance mindset , because you're letting it effect your frame

personally now I tend to let it just go over my head and ignore it , the girls who are serious about you will acknowledge your nonchalance and mark you as passing the test then try to draw you back in

The time wasters and low interest girls won't do anything they don't care

 

[Millard Fillmore]

I only block/delete women who harass me or turn sour, everyone else is fair game and no need to block.

Agree with this. The rest I just forget about. Easy come easy go.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

She may put out down the line but At what point if the juice no longer worth the squeeze?

 

[user252009]

I like it when they stay in my IG and notice my life is so much better without them.

Ah yes, the sweet sweet taste of success without them after leaving them

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Given a decent amount of self control and awareness, it's better not to block them or delete them.

They get a kick when they notice that their behaviour lead a guy to have such a hard reaction and they could even brag about it with their friends.

In my opinion unless you're the guy that feels the need to keep writing or texting (which is a huge no), the best option is simply letting them there while not interacting at all.

If they come back to fish for attention and gauge your reaction, you simply dont reply to them or you give polite short closed answers.

She "Hey X it's a lot of time since we last talked, sorry for not getting back at you but I was busy that evening"

You "all ok no worries"

Then she either doesnt write anymore cause she gets it or if she does, you dont reply or keep it close and brief again.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

You "which stalker is this?"

I dont know, it seems like you're trying too hard to get back at her especially if it was her to ghost you.

Genuine indifference with no hard feelings probably strikes them more.

 

[soulforge]

I never ghosted anyone in my life. And I probably wouldn't notice nor care if anyone ghosted me.

That's not true.. If you been having sex regular with a chick and it was great sex, and she was hot.. if she ghosted you, you would notice it.

Let's not pretend that you wouldn't notice. I'm sure you wouldn't care.. But let's not pretend you would not notice.

 

[MtmVaott]

You can also archieve the chat. Then you won't get any notifications and you don't see it in the app. But you have to be certain you are done with her for good and won't retext.

 

[logicallefty]

If they keep trying to stir up drama after ties are officially cut, then I block. Otherwise, no.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Nah. Stop being so sensitive, you just weren't her first choice.

 

[LTG71]

Because when they come back, they come for validation and more games, and it's gotten old and tiring and annoying as fvck

Facts. Some women are like cats. They only come around when they want something, usually attention and validation. Recently an acquaintance texted me during a fight with her boyfriend. She sends me a selfie of her new haircut to fish for a compliment to boost her ego, lol. So predictable it’s laughable. Praise me, tell me I’m pretty and not a piece for sh!t. Gets old once you notice the patterns.

 

[RangerMIke]

No... but I'm not sure how to 'block' people anyway.

Seems to me that doing something like that indicates that at some level her actions bother you. IMO you really shouldn't care, and actually be grateful that whatever woman you are seeing letting you know who she really is when she is disrespectful and rude.

However, if someone really feels the need to do this than by all means, block them. Don't let anything get in the way of your positive attitude.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

What takes the least amount of effort and time?

I'd think simply ignoring them and carrying on with your life. Blocking or worse arguing with disrespectful people is not a good way to spend your time and energy in my opinion.

 

[Solomon]

She may put out down the line but At what point if the juice no longer worth the squeeze?

I like it when they stay in my IG and notice my life is so much better without them.

I see both sides to this, and honestly if you block her or not who cares?
If you bang her down the road make no mistake she's probably banged a bunch of other guys in between time
If you block her who gives a shyt about what she thinks? if she really respected you and your time she wouldn't have flaked to begin with. Why does it matter what she thinks? and even if you don't block her there are no gurantee's you will do anything with her down the line.
One thing I've learned about women over the years is if they truly fancy you, they will move mountains to see you and talk to you, they will not drop the ball. Flaking and ghosting are typically signs of lack of interest

Honestly for me it's situational for me

Regardless I'm on to the next one if the one whom I was dealing with isn't being cooperative

 

[bat soup]

It's becoming way, way too common and I'm done with dealing with disrespectful b!tches that either disrespect me (also by ghosting me). Do you block these women or just remove them from your socials/numbers?

I just keep sending them increasingly desperate messages.