"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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do you believe in star signs?

tony-montana

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sometimes i ask a girl her star sign and google the compatibility with mine.. usually turns out true. do you guys use this to determine if you should continue the pursue? because if you see that the compatibility isn't that great why bother?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sometimes it's interesting to read about signs, but it would still boil down on your DJ skills, don't take those things seriously...just read it for laughs
 

moneyisking

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uh... no? come on a man don't have time for star signs? he's gota places to go and people to meet. not saying you're not a man though. just don't give attention to those womanly bull sh!t
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alle_Gory

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So calling yourself Tony Montana, that's like a sarcastic joke right?
 

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On principle, I don't believe in this but in practice, I've known all too many women who are the very epitome of their sign and I'm afrain that I do demonstrate some of the stereotypical qualities (good and bad) of my own.

So who really knows?
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Yeah I don't read the horoscopes, but SO many women have said within minutes of meeting me: "You must be a Gemini."

I looked up the "characteristics" of a Gemini, and it's me to a Texas T. So who knows?

But don't give it too much credence.
 

KontrollerX

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No, but I think its alright if you want to use that sort of thing as a conversational topic.

Women tend to eat that sort of nonsense up.
 

old married dude

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KontrollerX said:
No, but I think its alright if you want to use that sort of thing as a conversational topic.

Women tend to eat that sort of nonsense up.
Not really, but some chicks buy into that ****.

I'm capricorn & the supposed traits of that sign do sort of fit me.

Maybe that's why chicks who were into that crap ran hurriedly away from me when they found out my birthday. :crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alle_Gory said:
So calling yourself Tony Montana, that's like a sarcastic joke right?

"SAY HELLLLLLLLLLLO TO MY LITTLE HOROSCOPE"


Dude c'mon bro, you can't be serious!! You decide whether your going to puruse a girl based off her sign??? LOL

I will say that it is interesting that many of us to fit in to what our "sign" says about us, but to ever use that as the deciding factor of whether or not to pursue a girl is just plain out wacky and shows that your self confidence is lacking at best.

Your 25 bro, start livinig life and finding yourself, force yourself to be social and meet new people in general.



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