"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you believe in a soul mate?

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do you beleive there is one person meant for you? i know most of you will say no.
my issue is, i did beleive in one, then it didnt work out with that girl. i feel like if i ever fall in love with another girl, i wouldnt genuinely love her.
similarly, i feel like if a girl has been in love with guy(s) before me, she cant have genuine love for me, i am just another guy that she is compatible with.
has anyone else ever faced this problem and what did they do about it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warboss Alex

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godjwood said:
do you beleive there is one person meant for you? i know most of you will say no.
my issue is, i did beleive in one, then it didnt work out with that girl. i feel like if i ever fall in love with another girl, i wouldnt genuinely love her.
similarly, i feel like if a girl has been in love with guy(s) before me, she cant have genuine love for me, i am just another guy that she is compatible with.
has anyone else ever faced this problem and what did they do about it?
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yes, I do, because I found mine some years ago. :)

I believe in soulmates, and I don't believe you've found yours yet. When you meet your true soulmate you'll know..

and if a girl was truly in love with a guy, regardless of what she says, she would have stayed with him. being in love has to be mutual, otherwise it's just infatuation. so don't worry about .. :) your girl is out there, and you'll be the only one she's ever loved (truly).
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Try adjusting your premise that there is such a thing as a single soul mate, there's a potential that there are numerous women out there who could become your soul mate. No one has ever said that each person could only have one soul mate and definitely no one has ever said that the first person a person comes across in a meaningful relationship is their soul mate nor detracts them from finding another.
 
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i believe in soulmates. a soulmate is somebody that has the same interests as you. they are somebody that can connect with you and know what your thinking about, without you having to say it. they always compliment you and accept you for you. when the sh*t hits the fan and ships going down and they would go down with you. that is a soulmate. i have had many women run at the first sign of trouble yet this girl that i have been with for 5 years has weathered the storm with me with no hesitation to run. that is what many refer to as the one.
 
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I believe eventually your going to find the one. It might be when you least expect it and there are many people you might think is the one. But one is going to shine through all the others. The one is going to love you just as much as you love them.. The games and **** will all be shut out, it will be real love.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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