do you attract what you are? looks wise

[Ryan Adams]

seems as if only average to uglier chicks go for me the 4.5 5s out of 10s. I think im a food lookin guy 5'10 good build im a solid 6-7 out of 10 looks wise. personality I think im a 10. but seems as if im only getting action from nothing but uglier chicks I don't want a 10 but the cute 6-7 outta 10s.

 

[TheProspect]

"Uglier" chicks receive less attention and are not approached as often as hotter ones. Therefore, a lot of them, will go out of their way to "go" for a guy by approaching him or showing blatant interest in him (especially if the guy is not at thenmale model level in looks, and the girl thinks she has a chance).

If you're getting action from nothing but "uglier" chicks that is a simply a result of your own decisions and standards. Raise your standards. Simple as that. Approach exclusively 6's and up (or whatever your target is). When that becomes second nature, raise your standards again. Always improve.

1) Raise your standards.
2) Always ask yourself: is there room for improvement?
3) Repeat.

 

[Mike32ct]

The tough part is that there are many different components to a guy's looks including but limited to height, hair, shoulder to waist ratio, jaw, skin tone, and other facial aesthetics. So a guy might do well on some of these, but slightly miss the mark on others that some attractive chick might be hung up on.

As someone who is roughly 5'10", I can tell you that it is a "neutral" height. Women won't call you short, but they generally won't call you tall either. A 5'10" guy generally needs to be ripped and/or have GREAT facial aesthetics (and good hair or aesthetic shaved/buzz) in order to compete with the 6+ foot crowd.

Also, consider how far you are getting with these 6s and 7s that you want. Are you they shutting you down instantly (i.e. hitting hard "looks wall"), or do you get marginal attraction and then LATER end up friend-zoned (i.e. soft looks wall)? Don't answer this. Just food for thought, so you have some idea where your current limits are.

 

[marmel75]

Typically at first yes, until a woman gets to know you, then women begin finding other things attractive to them other than your looks. This is why dumpy guys end up with hot chicks...from social circles. She has gotten to know him better than someone she just met and finds other things attractive about him.