"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do YOU ask a chick out ONLY when she shows clear IOI

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ioi = indication of interest

what things did women say to you that made you go
"okay she really wants me" which led to you guys hanging out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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verysuave said:
ioi = indication of interest

what things did women say to you that made you go
"okay she really wants me" which led to you guys hanging out?
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I'm in school, so there have always been enough women around me. And therefore, I AM able to only ask out the ones who show IOIs...

ARe you asking for specific IOIs??? Dude come on....you just know.
 
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War Against Betaism

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The deal breaker for me is the high five. You say something like "Oh your mom has that car too? Mine too, high five!" When you high five them, if they keep their hand their, you close it like you're holding hands and then slowly let go. If you get a good reception from them then it means they're interested.

*okay, that may be a stupid question to high five to, I just had to use an example.
 
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Smiling, laughing, her asking you a lot of questions, she plays with your hair, etc. You will know. I usually only ask if the ioi is pretty high sometimes I ask if it's a little bit but I never ask if there is no ioi at all thats just retarded lol.
 
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I can tell by the chemistry amidst eye contact. Another obvious sign is laughing at jokes that aren't funny. A girl who likes you will respond to one of your stupid comments by either defending it or laughing hysterically at it. Another one is if she touches you, especially on the bicep or upper thigh. They also will follow you or walk with you when you walk away from them.

It's said that girls do not make the first move, but these IOIs clearly indicate otherwise.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She tells me that she has recently had an urge and wants to go hiking. She is not an outdoors person at all, but knows that I like hiking.

She has suggested other things we do too, and always something she knows that I do or like anyway, though not always something she really likes.

But it isn't as often the things they say that make me think this, rather what they do and how they act.
 
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