"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do YOU ask a chick out ONLY when she shows clear IOI

verysuave

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ioi = indication of interest

what things did women say to you that made you go
"okay she really wants me" which led to you guys hanging out?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket

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verysuave said:
ioi = indication of interest

what things did women say to you that made you go
"okay she really wants me" which led to you guys hanging out?
I'm in school, so there have always been enough women around me. And therefore, I AM able to only ask out the ones who show IOIs...

ARe you asking for specific IOIs??? Dude come on....you just know.
 

War Against Betaism

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The deal breaker for me is the high five. You say something like "Oh your mom has that car too? Mine too, high five!" When you high five them, if they keep their hand their, you close it like you're holding hands and then slowly let go. If you get a good reception from them then it means they're interested.

*okay, that may be a stupid question to high five to, I just had to use an example.
 

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Smiling, laughing, her asking you a lot of questions, she plays with your hair, etc. You will know. I usually only ask if the ioi is pretty high sometimes I ask if it's a little bit but I never ask if there is no ioi at all thats just retarded lol.
 

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I can tell by the chemistry amidst eye contact. Another obvious sign is laughing at jokes that aren't funny. A girl who likes you will respond to one of your stupid comments by either defending it or laughing hysterically at it. Another one is if she touches you, especially on the bicep or upper thigh. They also will follow you or walk with you when you walk away from them.

It's said that girls do not make the first move, but these IOIs clearly indicate otherwise.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She tells me that she has recently had an urge and wants to go hiking. She is not an outdoors person at all, but knows that I like hiking.

She has suggested other things we do too, and always something she knows that I do or like anyway, though not always something she really likes.

But it isn't as often the things they say that make me think this, rather what they do and how they act.
 
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