"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you act differently with fvck buddies?

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I have this girl that I have been fvcking, no strings attached. At first everything was okay, but as it went on for few weeks, she started laying down some tests and I think I didn't do too well. Here are some examples:

She would talk about other guys she has fvcked to me many times and sometimes in details of the act. She would also do some stupid things like honking my car while I am driving, and when I told her not to, she would try to rationalize it and I didn't react strongly towards her. Other times she would leave me hanging without sex probably on purpose to test me or gain the control or some sort of sh!t. I have decided towards not contacting her until she contacts me and mostly determined to let this one go if she doesn't care to contact me first.

I understand that I must lay down some forceful rules and groundings about respect when I am DATING a girl, but this woman is strictly for sex and I have no intention whatsoever of going out with her (partly b/c this bytch is a psycho). So is there any difference in the way a man must act when he is interacting with his date and his friend with benefit?

PS: Any book recommendation that help a man to become more of a man is welcome. I am reading In to the Wild and I am enjoying reading actually. Thanks in advance my friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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why are you messing with psychos? raise your standards buddy!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I see you my boy. Just a couple of months you were a virgin now I see you doing your thing.

You must value yourself as a man. A girl will only disrespect a man who let's her do it. Whenever she does something disrespectful you must check her on it. Don't yell but just let her know that it is unacceptable and you won't tolerate it.
 
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