"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you act differently with fvck buddies?

moneyisking

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I have this girl that I have been fvcking, no strings attached. At first everything was okay, but as it went on for few weeks, she started laying down some tests and I think I didn't do too well. Here are some examples:

She would talk about other guys she has fvcked to me many times and sometimes in details of the act. She would also do some stupid things like honking my car while I am driving, and when I told her not to, she would try to rationalize it and I didn't react strongly towards her. Other times she would leave me hanging without sex probably on purpose to test me or gain the control or some sort of sh!t. I have decided towards not contacting her until she contacts me and mostly determined to let this one go if she doesn't care to contact me first.

I understand that I must lay down some forceful rules and groundings about respect when I am DATING a girl, but this woman is strictly for sex and I have no intention whatsoever of going out with her (partly b/c this bytch is a psycho). So is there any difference in the way a man must act when he is interacting with his date and his friend with benefit?

PS: Any book recommendation that help a man to become more of a man is welcome. I am reading In to the Wild and I am enjoying reading actually. Thanks in advance my friends.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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J Roc

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why are you messing with psychos? raise your standards buddy!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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I see you my boy. Just a couple of months you were a virgin now I see you doing your thing.

You must value yourself as a man. A girl will only disrespect a man who let's her do it. Whenever she does something disrespectful you must check her on it. Don't yell but just let her know that it is unacceptable and you won't tolerate it.
 
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