"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do yall trust women?

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And if you slightly dont trust them, why all the questions about this or that?

Idk...im just frustrated at the moment.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Darth

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I trust women, and if they break my trust I don't speak to them again. Always best to give them the benefit of the doubt at the beginning. Innocent until proven guilty.

A lot of guys take the "guilty until proven innocent" approach, and the problem with that is you lose all of the girls who were innocent to begin with (aka the ones you actually want).
 

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i give them as much benefit of the doubt as anyone when I first meet them. However, I don't think I will ever trust a woman to love me unconditionally. In that way, I would never believe a girl who said such a thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There are things I trust about them:
1) I trust that they will demonstrate their true feeling through their actions
2) I trust that they will do what they perceive to be in their own best interest
3) I trust that when they say they will act differently from above, that they may be sincere and even believe what they are saying, but, the vast majority of the time...
(Back to 1)
 

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I trust every new woman I meet in life in any capacity 0%.

THEN each woman has a chance to gain my trust by her actions and build up.

Generally the best might make it up to 70%. To get past that mark with me there must be something major come up in MY life where I need them to go above and beyond for ME, with nothing it for themselves, and they do it and come through for me. My mother is the only one who has ever passed this mark and got to 100%. I really don't look for any others to make it there the rest of my life.
 

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Zarky said:
I trust certain individuals, whether they're men or women. And certain other individuals I don't trust.
I don't trust people who are one sex pretending to be another.
 

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From my experience with loads of women... No i do not.
 

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I trust women if they are close friends. My close friends I know will have my back, man or woman.

With regards to relationships, no I dont really trust women. Maybe Ill meet one in the future I can trust. But at this point in my life I do not trust them with regards to relationships.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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logicallefty said:
Generally the best might make it up to 70%. To get past that mark with me there must be something major come up in MY life where I need them to go above and beyond for ME, with nothing it for themselves, and they do it and come through for me. My mother is the only one who has ever passed this mark and got to 100%. I really don't look for any others to make it there the rest of my life.
My mother is the only woman I'd trust. In fact she is probably the only person in the world I'd trust full stop
 

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I think some of us are interpreting the word "trust" in different ways.

I use "trust" to mean "trust that she will behave honestly with me."

If by "trust" you mean "trust that she will treat me like an equal and we can have a type of friendship as between brothers," then no way in fricking HELL.
 
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