"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do yall trust women?

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And if you slightly dont trust them, why all the questions about this or that?

Idk...im just frustrated at the moment.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I trust women, and if they break my trust I don't speak to them again. Always best to give them the benefit of the doubt at the beginning. Innocent until proven guilty.

A lot of guys take the "guilty until proven innocent" approach, and the problem with that is you lose all of the girls who were innocent to begin with (aka the ones you actually want).
 

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i give them as much benefit of the doubt as anyone when I first meet them. However, I don't think I will ever trust a woman to love me unconditionally. In that way, I would never believe a girl who said such a thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There are things I trust about them:
1) I trust that they will demonstrate their true feeling through their actions
2) I trust that they will do what they perceive to be in their own best interest
3) I trust that when they say they will act differently from above, that they may be sincere and even believe what they are saying, but, the vast majority of the time...
(Back to 1)
 

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I trust every new woman I meet in life in any capacity 0%.

THEN each woman has a chance to gain my trust by her actions and build up.

Generally the best might make it up to 70%. To get past that mark with me there must be something major come up in MY life where I need them to go above and beyond for ME, with nothing it for themselves, and they do it and come through for me. My mother is the only one who has ever passed this mark and got to 100%. I really don't look for any others to make it there the rest of my life.
 

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Zarky said:
I trust certain individuals, whether they're men or women. And certain other individuals I don't trust.
I don't trust people who are one sex pretending to be another.
 

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From my experience with loads of women... No i do not.
 

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I trust women if they are close friends. My close friends I know will have my back, man or woman.

With regards to relationships, no I dont really trust women. Maybe Ill meet one in the future I can trust. But at this point in my life I do not trust them with regards to relationships.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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logicallefty said:
Generally the best might make it up to 70%. To get past that mark with me there must be something major come up in MY life where I need them to go above and beyond for ME, with nothing it for themselves, and they do it and come through for me. My mother is the only one who has ever passed this mark and got to 100%. I really don't look for any others to make it there the rest of my life.
My mother is the only woman I'd trust. In fact she is probably the only person in the world I'd trust full stop
 

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I think some of us are interpreting the word "trust" in different ways.

I use "trust" to mean "trust that she will behave honestly with me."

If by "trust" you mean "trust that she will treat me like an equal and we can have a type of friendship as between brothers," then no way in fricking HELL.
 
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