I've gotten this bs excuse twice from this girl I'm seeing and I'm starting to think it's an excuse because there's no way I can be this unlucky at timing twice in a row. If she's banging someone else then why keep wanting to see me? How do I proceed? Do I just stop seeing her til the sex starts back up or confront her about possibly banging someone else? I think the second choice would make me sound needy as hell but at least then I'd know for sure so I could cut it off with her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do women use the "I'm on my period" as an excuse not to have sex with you?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
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A lot of women don't have regular periods, so there is no way you can know for sure. Birth control really fvcks with it, especially the depo shot. A lot of other health issues can cause irregular periods, too.
Maximummax
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What happened to her Mouth than?
Is the mouth leaking too
Is the mouth leaking too
Building_and_Loan
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Careful what you wish for, don't call her out on it haha.
A girl I was dating recently gave me the "it's not a good week to have sex, if you know what I mean" line and we hadn't had sex yet after almost a month of dating. She held out for a while.
I thought she was just BSing me, but when we got together that weekend we ended up banging on a Saturday night and she was still on her period. I was like wtf. My sheets were nasty after that. The weird thing is that she knew she was on her period, and I just assumed that she wasn't since she was letting it go that far.
I've never had a girl bang me for our first time when she was on her period.
A girl I was dating recently gave me the "it's not a good week to have sex, if you know what I mean" line and we hadn't had sex yet after almost a month of dating. She held out for a while.
I thought she was just BSing me, but when we got together that weekend we ended up banging on a Saturday night and she was still on her period. I was like wtf. My sheets were nasty after that. The weird thing is that she knew she was on her period, and I just assumed that she wasn't since she was letting it go that far.
I've never had a girl bang me for our first time when she was on her period.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KingBeef
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:crackup: That has to be a plus....Maximummax said:
hockeyfreak79
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Depends on the chick & how horny she is for you. My ex wf didn't care....unless it was a "heavy day"
Last gf, 1st time we banged she was but it was a "light" day. She ended up pulling that line quite a bit. If it was a light day we would still go at it tho. I can't think of any of mine that would be totally grossed out, just put a towel down.
I did bang 1 ex on heavy day, yeah that sh*t got messy. She was h*rny as **** sooo.....oh well
Light day....Sure
Heavy day.....BJ or I can wait whatever.
Last gf, 1st time we banged she was but it was a "light" day. She ended up pulling that line quite a bit. If it was a light day we would still go at it tho. I can't think of any of mine that would be totally grossed out, just put a towel down.
I did bang 1 ex on heavy day, yeah that sh*t got messy. She was h*rny as **** sooo.....oh well
Light day....Sure
Heavy day.....BJ or I can wait whatever.
logicallefty
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"You period don't matter baby. I used to work for Playtex and am the guy who invented putting strings on tampons. I like to be able to floss after I eat"
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Thats crazy ... you can get HIV or Hepatis very easily that way if she is carrier , of course everybody is clean until they get infected ... not worth risk until you made her tested.
Johnnythearrow, live a little my friend. Obviously wear a condom if its a girl you are not exclusive with.
No red tide has stopped me yet. Obviously I prefer a clear day, but I'll play in the rain if I need to. Girls are usually thrilled you are depraved enough to do such a thing. Many boys are afraid or grossed out.
No red tide has stopped me yet. Obviously I prefer a clear day, but I'll play in the rain if I need to. Girls are usually thrilled you are depraved enough to do such a thing. Many boys are afraid or grossed out.