"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do women use the "I'm on my period" as an excuse not to have sex with you?

Robert28

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I've gotten this bs excuse twice from this girl I'm seeing and I'm starting to think it's an excuse because there's no way I can be this unlucky at timing twice in a row. If she's banging someone else then why keep wanting to see me? How do I proceed? Do I just stop seeing her til the sex starts back up or confront her about possibly banging someone else? I think the second choice would make me sound needy as hell but at least then I'd know for sure so I could cut it off with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bible_Belt

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A lot of women don't have regular periods, so there is no way you can know for sure. Birth control really fvcks with it, especially the depo shot. A lot of other health issues can cause irregular periods, too.
 

El Payaso

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Just ask her out a week later. Periods usually last a week or so.
 

Building_and_Loan

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Careful what you wish for, don't call her out on it haha.

A girl I was dating recently gave me the "it's not a good week to have sex, if you know what I mean" line and we hadn't had sex yet after almost a month of dating. She held out for a while.

I thought she was just BSing me, but when we got together that weekend we ended up banging on a Saturday night and she was still on her period. I was like wtf. My sheets were nasty after that. The weird thing is that she knew she was on her period, and I just assumed that she wasn't since she was letting it go that far.

I've never had a girl bang me for our first time when she was on her period.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hockeyfreak79

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Depends on the chick & how horny she is for you. My ex wf didn't care....unless it was a "heavy day"

Last gf, 1st time we banged she was but it was a "light" day. She ended up pulling that line quite a bit. If it was a light day we would still go at it tho. I can't think of any of mine that would be totally grossed out, just put a towel down.

I did bang 1 ex on heavy day, yeah that sh*t got messy. She was h*rny as **** sooo.....oh well

Light day....Sure

Heavy day.....BJ or I can wait whatever.
 

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"You period don't matter baby. I used to work for Playtex and am the guy who invented putting strings on tampons. I like to be able to floss after I eat"
 

MtnMan

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When I encounter that line I just say "ok, cool. I'll get a towel" and bang away. Nothing to be afraid of. Its just some blood, that's what showers are for.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JohnyTheArrow

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Thats crazy ... you can get HIV or Hepatis very easily that way if she is carrier , of course everybody is clean until they get infected ... not worth risk until you made her tested.
 

MtnMan

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Johnnythearrow, live a little my friend. Obviously wear a condom if its a girl you are not exclusive with.

No red tide has stopped me yet. Obviously I prefer a clear day, but I'll play in the rain if I need to. Girls are usually thrilled you are depraved enough to do such a thing. Many boys are afraid or grossed out.
 
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