Do women reject out of insecurity?

[mahon83050]

Have this ever happpened to you? A girl who is actually attracted to you but rejects you out of her own insecurity? Insecurity meaning she thinks you are too good-looking for her, smart for her, good for her etc. (deep down though, she really wants to date you, but is afraid or uncomfortable to)I mean, I know we are not supposed to take rejection personally, so remember this could be a possibility.

 

[JT47319]

You may not have built up enough rapport/comfort with her. The initial attraction may have been there, but unless you establish that emotional attraction, she will think you are a player and just after her for sex, especially if you are good looking. The Attract Phase is simply one step in seduction.

 

[Grey Fox]

Creating insecurity is part of attracting her. Once you provide she sees you can give her security she is dependent on that. That influences the power of attraction.

-Grey Fox

 

[NatureGuy]

Yes, it has happened to me. Insecurity on her part was reinforced by my arrogance which made her feel even more insecure and she dropped me.

 

[backbreaker]

I know a girl that, and I am not making this up, will not go out with anyone she meets on a Thursday, because every guy who she has meet on a thursday has treated her wrong (funny, I always seem to break up with girls on Sundays, but that's beside the point).

A girl can reject you for anything, so don't take it so personal.