"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do women really prefer older men?

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I am a lot older then my age...
I have a full time job, out of college, a lot of life experience. But It seems women want to be with guys who are over 30. (Women my age...early 20s)
Because they are more experienced and financially secure. There really isn't anything that can be done about it right?
I am talking in terms of LTR's
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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At 22, this is not the case for you - women look for future "potential" and not just what is.

Older men exude masculinity - just exude masculinity and don't let a woman overrun you and you'll be ok. Older men don't tolerate foolish shyt from a woman or anyone and women respect them for this!!! Take control and you'll be line with what older men do!
 

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All good ideas but... in reality i know women who swear by mature guys and end up with younger boys and women who go for men of their own age and from time to time stray with men 15 years older... In other words there are no rules.
 
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Originally posted by swampwiz
My g/f is 20 (I am 39 :D )
PR_L lowers his head and goes on his knees and bows while flinging his arms above his head and to the floor in recognition of the master and hopes that one day he would be in the same predictament!!
 

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I agree

Yeah, don't put up with crap.
With men I don't put up with crap but you ever see a fantasy drawing of a beautiful woman riding some monsterous beast with 20 horns? Some filthy disgusting brute? That is what I think of about how women can control anything. Beautiful women can tame any vicious murderous beast.
I may be the most vicious animal on earth, but women cast a spell better then Merlin.
It takes enormous will power to walk away from a potential girlfriend, when you realize she is playing games and testing your man hood.
God, when I am dead this will be going on for the rest of the years this planet exist. Men vs. women, questioning motives, geez, it's a torture to be here sometimes
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reed, you are being overly dramatic - simply like your manhood more than the pvssy!!!

When a man likes the pvssy more than his manhood he is a chump!!!!!! Hold on to your dignity and be a man!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
At 22, this is not the case for you - women look for future "potential" and not just what is.

Older men exude masculinity - just exude masculinity and don't let a woman overrun you and you'll be ok. Older men don't tolerate foolish shyt from a woman or anyone and women respect them for this!!! Take control and you'll be line with what older men do!
This is some very true stuff. It's more the attitude and sense of maturity that attracts them to older men, nothing really about the actual age - it's the qualities that will come with age - but you can also have at a YOUNG age as well.
 
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Originally posted by Luscious
This is some very true stuff. It's more the attitude and sense of maturity that attracts them to older men, nothing really about the actual age - it's the qualities that will come with age - but you can also have at a YOUNG age as well.
Yes, good summarization!
 

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I also beleive woman want a guy who is older, simply because it is in their mindset. I know girls I have dated who ask how old I am, and when they find out they are older, they get a little flustered (they are just so used to always dating older guys). I personally however, dont mind, as I always go for the very young girls, like 19-20, far tighter bodies, and still young enough that they are not entrenched in their ways!
 

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It used to be that a lot of younger women wanted older guys, but I think recently that trend has begun to change

Usually the guy is about 2 or 3 years older than the girl, but some of these older women seem to be preferring younger men. ie Demi Moore- Ashton Kutcher.

I think it goes through cycles, plus cetain women just have a preference. I can see why they'd go for older dudes though. There is less games, and more stability.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Luscious
This is some very true stuff. It's more the attitude and sense of maturity that attracts them to older men, nothing really about the actual age - it's the qualities that will come with age - but you can also have at a YOUNG age as well.

that is so true, you can also have that at a young age too, just depends on your experiences in life.
 

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manhood vs pvssy

how can anybody have manhood without pvssy?
maybe i'm not explaining this right. maybe i'm not making sense. I need to learn how to explain things more clearly. I'm 50/50
half women think I am much older then my age, when I get angry it's immature.
 

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Go for a chick thats not a 10...go for say an 8....Its a lot more relaxing, you still get laid and if they fvck off then its not quite as bad!
 
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Re: manhood vs pvssy

Originally posted by Reed247
how can anybody have manhood without pvssy?
Hahaha, your statement should read. "how can anybody have manhood without BALLS!!"

When you like the vagina more than your dignity and worth as a man then you become a pvssy!!!!
 
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