"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do women post field reports about you?

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No. Women aren't posting field reports about you.

While you are posting your online diary of field reports women are too busy fielding offers from multiple men, talking to them, texting them, dating them, planning to marry them etc. to bother.

Like it or not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No. Women aren't posting field reports about you.

While you are posting your online diary of field reports women are too busy fielding offers from multiple men, talking to them, texting them, dating them, planning to marry them etc. to bother.

Like it or not.
What happened that made you get banned from this site
 

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I know for sure they do "field reports" to their friends, thats why I avoid girls that I cant drop with no conseguences.

She thinks you want a relationship and she said you are the god of sex with a huge d1ck, then you ask her to keep it casual and you are a lazy noob with a short one.

Being there, done that and understood its not worth unless everything its clear for day 1.
 

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Bann this kid please. average annoyed frustrated troll
 

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Lmao at the fantasies of these women telling "scores" of women field reports about you.

No there are no women worried about some anonymous bums with delusions of grandeur on the net. Women are concerned with celebrities, athletes, hollywood stars, and high value chads. Not oddballs mentally masturbating over countless ways to fake being the high value man she wants.

Carry on with fairytale male fan fiction coping tho. Lmao
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You, Sir, are a fvcking idiot if you don't think women are talking about their experiences with you, sex and all, to scores of other women.
Yea, the OP doesn't know what he is talking about, likely from inexperience. Within one minute after you drop off a chick, she is texting her friends trying to figure out everything you did. When you send her a text, within 30 minute your text has been circulated though the entire chick-network and they all start analyzing your 'meaning'. This is one of the reasons I don't like to text. Women LOVE this sh!t.... If you are dating a woman, her friends know EVERYTHING about you from your length, girth, to how you 'taste'. They go into a whole lot more detail than we do.
 

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What is painfully obvious is women aren't posting field reports about undesireables on an anonymous forum who admit they are constantly trying to improve themselves. Women aren't worried about posting field reports about men who are thinking about and discussing daily how to fake it till they make it, trying to trick women into wanting to notice them, talking about how difficult OLD is, pretending to go "no contact", discussing shet tests, asking which race does better in x location, discussing getting cosmetic surgery and hair restoration, men spreading fan fiction tales and on and on.

No women aren't thinking of downgrade men on anonymous forums. Those are the thirst buckets, creeps, stalkers, rejects, mgtow, incels etc they dont post field reports to their friends about. Those are the orbiters who they laugh at with their friends as a passing thought. A group of do not wants "field report". Keep coping tho.
 

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No. Women aren't posting field reports about you.

While you are posting your online diary of field reports women are too busy fielding offers from multiple men, talking to them, texting them, dating them, planning to marry them etc. to bother.

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No. Women aren't posting field reports about you.

While you are posting your online diary of field reports women are too busy fielding offers from multiple men, talking to them, texting them, dating them, planning to marry them etc. to bother.

Like it or not.
They do though . They talk or complain about you to their friends.

If it's a group of hoez, it's actually better she's complaining, cause if your good to her they'll think your stupid.
 

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@Amante Silvestre Is correct they always talk about the men that are interested in them... this is how they build social value with thier female friends. Even the dudes they aren't really interested in... thier friend zone orbiters gives them value. This is why they will reach out to you wven if they don't care about you when you drop off the screen. She might express frustration with a guy that is chasing them that they don't really want... they are communicating to thier chick friends that men are interested. This is why they like orbiters until the orbiter becomes a stalker... they hate that sh!t.... and I don't blame them. Even then, you can be sure they are talking about you... to the cops.
 

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No. Women aren't posting field reports about you.

While you are posting your online diary of field reports women are too busy fielding offers from multiple men, talking to them, texting them, dating them, planning to marry them etc. to bother.

Like it or not.
Well @Amante Silvestre is correct on his responses.

Women may not go in to as much of a deep depth of self building/actualization and as men in many extents of confidence cultivation, like we do on this forum, however that’s because they are the ones being pitched or pursued. Yes they have more options everywhere, but this is just the dynamic of life and dating.

I don’t get why you’re worried about if they are or are not doing field reports on men/you, it doesn’t make one iota of difference to any man on this forum putting in work to get better. It doesn’t change a single thing. If every woman I saw didn’t talk about me once to any of her friends but she was still coming to my place, great. If she wasn’t, fine. What she does in her spare time when I’m not in the picture is her choice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They don't but they definitely talk about their interactions with men amongst each other.

I think field reports are good---posting online meh but keeping a log of some sort is definitely good. You can see where you did things right or wrong and chart your growth. Records are good to keep - focus and repetition are how you'll get good at anything.
 

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This is now women do field reports:

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Newsflash: You specifically aren't important to women. You are nothing more than part of the herd of do not wants she laughs about trying to compete for her attention and any other woman you hope will accept you. She's only worried about and discussing the man she wants to be with, wants to date, wants an ltr with, wants to marry. But these days men will accept anything to feel wanted. Even if they have to live in dream land.

That's the inconvenient truth. Cope harder
 

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Anonymous bros "Like" patting each other on the back isn't going to change facts. Its just a group cope.

Game is poosy begging and trying to be noticed out of the herd. Women want men they want. Not desperate thirst buckets they give no second thought to but for a quick ego boost.

Might as well be one of the hundreds of read/deletes or do not want swipes on old.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Careful Amante: once you give him a verbal whooping as you are doing, he has a tendency to become a lifetime stalker.

Carpe diem :D
 

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Lets test your theory OP, actually, i inadvertently already did:



Note the time specified above, Monday at 1:30am



Note the time specified above, monday at 4:16am

Conclusion: almost immediately upon me messaging the first girl, she told her friend about an extremely brief meaningless conversation that went nowhere in enough detail that her friend instantly recognized me saying the same thing to her and was annoyed about it

Am i a mythbuster or a top 1% alpha male? You decide.
 

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Lets test your theory OP, actually, i inadvertently already did:



Note the time specified above, Monday at 1:30am



Note the time specified above, monday at 4:16am

Conclusion: almost immediately upon me messaging the first girl, she told her friend about an extremely brief meaningless conversation that went nowhere in enough detail that her friend instantly recognized me saying the same thing to her and was annoyed about it

Am i a mythbuster or a top 1% alpha male? You decide.
They relay everything. If a man had resistance, often times he was at odds with their group think .
 

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I saw my woman's shyt. So she forwarded a cawk pic of me next to a beer bottle. Nearly as long and nearly as thick . She was like he has a really nice size. They weren't trying to hear anything good about me cause that social circle wasn't liking me at that time so they changed the subject. So assume they share all your juicy bits and details. They often don't deter from what their friends want them to do .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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