I was thinking of growing my hair out because of the style of music I'm into. I also play in a band. I think it looks pretty badass when I see guys with long hair. But the question is, what would a woman think? Would it increase or decrease my chances with her? I was thinking of parting it down the middle and growing it down to my shoulders.
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Do women like men with long hair?
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What I have learned...not all people with long hair looks good on them. However, what looks good on most men is shaved hair.
You want some details? I know a lead singer for a local rock band that plays for money in different restaurants, clubs, ect. He used to have long hair but decided to shave it all off. He's kept it like that ever since due to the fact that he's had more approaches from women now than when he had long hair.
BTW, I've had my hair shaved for over a year now, and I feel I look better this way as well. I dont know if this helps, but I'm just giving you an insight of some details of what I know has worked.
What I have learned...not all people with long hair looks good on them. However, what looks good on most men is shaved hair.
You want some details? I know a lead singer for a local rock band that plays for money in different restaurants, clubs, ect. He used to have long hair but decided to shave it all off. He's kept it like that ever since due to the fact that he's had more approaches from women now than when he had long hair.
BTW, I've had my hair shaved for over a year now, and I feel I look better this way as well. I dont know if this helps, but I'm just giving you an insight of some details of what I know has worked.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Long or short it does not matter.
Yeah, why not.
If it's sweet and all.
I think GEL is a turnoff, since they can't play with it.
they have a thing for running their fingers through your hairs. (HAHA HAIRS).
So if you want to grow it, grow it.
I'm letting mines grow it and so far so good. But make sure that it fits your personality, I know guys who have long hairs and it looks horrible on them...
and don't grow it to please others. sheesh.
If it's sweet and all.
I think GEL is a turnoff, since they can't play with it.
they have a thing for running their fingers through your hairs. (HAHA HAIRS).
So if you want to grow it, grow it.
I'm letting mines grow it and so far so good. But make sure that it fits your personality, I know guys who have long hairs and it looks horrible on them...
and don't grow it to please others. sheesh.
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Mandiblard
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Lol
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If you have strong features, like very large cheekbones, jaw etc long hair will soften them and make them look smaller (can be good or bad)
Generally women do not prefer long hair its more of a nieche thing with rock.
I think it will decrease your options on the whole but if you really want a girl from that type of setting then it can seperate you from the others (I used to have long hair for years)
Didnt like it because other men would assume im more femminine and want to fight me, also girls into other styles of music. Dance,funkyhouse,r+b,cheese etc really didnt like it.
on the flip side short hair will make your features look more dominant and masculine thatl be why its generally preferred.
Generally women do not prefer long hair its more of a nieche thing with rock.
I think it will decrease your options on the whole but if you really want a girl from that type of setting then it can seperate you from the others (I used to have long hair for years)
Didnt like it because other men would assume im more femminine and want to fight me, also girls into other styles of music. Dance,funkyhouse,r+b,cheese etc really didnt like it.
on the flip side short hair will make your features look more dominant and masculine thatl be why its generally preferred.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
No, this hairstyle does not look good.
Guys, you know how you hate it when women cut their hair off and get butch cuts? Well, we hate it when you get "femme cuts".
If your hairstyle would look good on a woman, then it's too long.
Guys, you know how you hate it when women cut their hair off and get butch cuts? Well, we hate it when you get "femme cuts".
If your hairstyle would look good on a woman, then it's too long.
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I've always gotten the impression chicks like hair no longer than the collarbone.
Like johnny depp's
Like johnny depp's
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If it fits your face/style, then yes. If it looks awkward or bad (ask around), then no.
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
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If the hair helps why not?
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Yeah man, Metal all the way 
Over the last 2 Years, I've grown my hair and I have to say I like how it turned out. It may not be super crisp, but THAT'S YOUR STYLE!
You're thinking of changing your style, because you don't like your current one. So did I. This is now my style. People like it - most do. Very often, you even get more interesting (because you do your own thing). A few girls will be appalled, because, well, they don't like it.
That's okay. You polarize. It's a good thing. There will always be haters. But they all kind of respect me for doing my thing.
You will see if the long hair really looks good on you - and it definitely can! If it does, yourself liking your style will do you much more good than having some pseudo-cool standard cut.
If you really want to do it, grow some balls. It's a RISK! Are you afraid? Yep, it may look weird for some time (up to a year). But the point is, you don't care how it looks. Also, what other people think. This would also go well with your rock/metal mentality.
This, in itself, is an attractive quality.
Is it nuts? Perhaps, but I don't regret it.
I won't cut my hair off, only because SoSuave said I MIGHT be getting more approaches... hell it's part of my identity!
Over the last 2 Years, I've grown my hair and I have to say I like how it turned out. It may not be super crisp, but THAT'S YOUR STYLE!
You're thinking of changing your style, because you don't like your current one. So did I. This is now my style. People like it - most do. Very often, you even get more interesting (because you do your own thing). A few girls will be appalled, because, well, they don't like it.
That's okay. You polarize. It's a good thing. There will always be haters. But they all kind of respect me for doing my thing.
You will see if the long hair really looks good on you - and it definitely can! If it does, yourself liking your style will do you much more good than having some pseudo-cool standard cut.
If you really want to do it, grow some balls. It's a RISK! Are you afraid? Yep, it may look weird for some time (up to a year). But the point is, you don't care how it looks. Also, what other people think. This would also go well with your rock/metal mentality.
This, in itself, is an attractive quality.
Is it nuts? Perhaps, but I don't regret it.
I won't cut my hair off, only because SoSuave said I MIGHT be getting more approaches... hell it's part of my identity!
The question that should be asked is this:
Would I like to have long hair?
It doesn't matter what women like. It matters what you like and as long as you like it and like yourself, you'll always have success with women.
Good luck, bro!
Would I like to have long hair?
It doesn't matter what women like. It matters what you like and as long as you like it and like yourself, you'll always have success with women.
Good luck, bro!