I was thinking of growing my hair out because of the style of music I'm into. I also play in a band. I think it looks pretty badass when I see guys with long hair. But the question is, what would a woman think? Would it increase or decrease my chances with her? I was thinking of parting it down the middle and growing it down to my shoulders.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Do women like men with long hair?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Make sure that your hairstyle goes with the times and matches your clothing style as well as your age.
What I have learned...not all people with long hair looks good on them. However, what looks good on most men is shaved hair.
You want some details? I know a lead singer for a local rock band that plays for money in different restaurants, clubs, ect. He used to have long hair but decided to shave it all off. He's kept it like that ever since due to the fact that he's had more approaches from women now than when he had long hair.
BTW, I've had my hair shaved for over a year now, and I feel I look better this way as well. I dont know if this helps, but I'm just giving you an insight of some details of what I know has worked.
What I have learned...not all people with long hair looks good on them. However, what looks good on most men is shaved hair.
You want some details? I know a lead singer for a local rock band that plays for money in different restaurants, clubs, ect. He used to have long hair but decided to shave it all off. He's kept it like that ever since due to the fact that he's had more approaches from women now than when he had long hair.
BTW, I've had my hair shaved for over a year now, and I feel I look better this way as well. I dont know if this helps, but I'm just giving you an insight of some details of what I know has worked.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Long or short it does not matter.
Yeah, why not.
If it's sweet and all.
I think GEL is a turnoff, since they can't play with it.
they have a thing for running their fingers through your hairs. (HAHA HAIRS).
So if you want to grow it, grow it.
I'm letting mines grow it and so far so good. But make sure that it fits your personality, I know guys who have long hairs and it looks horrible on them...
and don't grow it to please others. sheesh.
If it's sweet and all.
I think GEL is a turnoff, since they can't play with it.
they have a thing for running their fingers through your hairs. (HAHA HAIRS).
So if you want to grow it, grow it.
I'm letting mines grow it and so far so good. But make sure that it fits your personality, I know guys who have long hairs and it looks horrible on them...
and don't grow it to please others. sheesh.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
Lol
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you have strong features, like very large cheekbones, jaw etc long hair will soften them and make them look smaller (can be good or bad)
Generally women do not prefer long hair its more of a nieche thing with rock.
I think it will decrease your options on the whole but if you really want a girl from that type of setting then it can seperate you from the others (I used to have long hair for years)
Didnt like it because other men would assume im more femminine and want to fight me, also girls into other styles of music. Dance,funkyhouse,r+b,cheese etc really didnt like it.
on the flip side short hair will make your features look more dominant and masculine thatl be why its generally preferred.
Generally women do not prefer long hair its more of a nieche thing with rock.
I think it will decrease your options on the whole but if you really want a girl from that type of setting then it can seperate you from the others (I used to have long hair for years)
Didnt like it because other men would assume im more femminine and want to fight me, also girls into other styles of music. Dance,funkyhouse,r+b,cheese etc really didnt like it.
on the flip side short hair will make your features look more dominant and masculine thatl be why its generally preferred.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
No, this hairstyle does not look good.
Guys, you know how you hate it when women cut their hair off and get butch cuts? Well, we hate it when you get "femme cuts".
If your hairstyle would look good on a woman, then it's too long.
Guys, you know how you hate it when women cut their hair off and get butch cuts? Well, we hate it when you get "femme cuts".
If your hairstyle would look good on a woman, then it's too long.
nightcrawler
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I've always gotten the impression chicks like hair no longer than the collarbone.
Like johnny depp's
Like johnny depp's
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If it fits your face/style, then yes. If it looks awkward or bad (ask around), then no.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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If the hair helps why not?
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Yeah man, Metal all the way 
Over the last 2 Years, I've grown my hair and I have to say I like how it turned out. It may not be super crisp, but THAT'S YOUR STYLE!
You're thinking of changing your style, because you don't like your current one. So did I. This is now my style. People like it - most do. Very often, you even get more interesting (because you do your own thing). A few girls will be appalled, because, well, they don't like it.
That's okay. You polarize. It's a good thing. There will always be haters. But they all kind of respect me for doing my thing.
You will see if the long hair really looks good on you - and it definitely can! If it does, yourself liking your style will do you much more good than having some pseudo-cool standard cut.
If you really want to do it, grow some balls. It's a RISK! Are you afraid? Yep, it may look weird for some time (up to a year). But the point is, you don't care how it looks. Also, what other people think. This would also go well with your rock/metal mentality.
This, in itself, is an attractive quality.
Is it nuts? Perhaps, but I don't regret it.
I won't cut my hair off, only because SoSuave said I MIGHT be getting more approaches... hell it's part of my identity!
Over the last 2 Years, I've grown my hair and I have to say I like how it turned out. It may not be super crisp, but THAT'S YOUR STYLE!
You're thinking of changing your style, because you don't like your current one. So did I. This is now my style. People like it - most do. Very often, you even get more interesting (because you do your own thing). A few girls will be appalled, because, well, they don't like it.
That's okay. You polarize. It's a good thing. There will always be haters. But they all kind of respect me for doing my thing.
You will see if the long hair really looks good on you - and it definitely can! If it does, yourself liking your style will do you much more good than having some pseudo-cool standard cut.
If you really want to do it, grow some balls. It's a RISK! Are you afraid? Yep, it may look weird for some time (up to a year). But the point is, you don't care how it looks. Also, what other people think. This would also go well with your rock/metal mentality.
This, in itself, is an attractive quality.
Is it nuts? Perhaps, but I don't regret it.
I won't cut my hair off, only because SoSuave said I MIGHT be getting more approaches... hell it's part of my identity!
The question that should be asked is this:
Would I like to have long hair?
It doesn't matter what women like. It matters what you like and as long as you like it and like yourself, you'll always have success with women.
Good luck, bro!
Would I like to have long hair?
It doesn't matter what women like. It matters what you like and as long as you like it and like yourself, you'll always have success with women.
Good luck, bro!