Malachi
Don Juan
This is very true...the past always get's brought up in arguements with the women i've spoken to.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do women like it when you say sorry?
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This is very true...the past always get's brought up in arguements with the women i've spoken to.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MightyMate
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I say sorry if i step on her foot, or i i pat her by mistake. But never i say sorry wfor stuff that i said or did. I always tell her why i did something but i didnt mean to do wrong. Girls get disapointed if You say sorry. Trust me.
You say sorry that means you except all responsibility and you are WRONG. Never say it to make her feel better or to end an argument or any other reason but when you are truly sorry.
I don't apologize for my actions and my decisions unless I did something wrong and I realize that I should not have done that.
I don't apologize for my actions and my decisions unless I did something wrong and I realize that I should not have done that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I agree with you. But what I am asking is if you think women care or not when you say sorry.
So far most people here think that it is just a waste of your time.
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Men apologize when they are wrong
pyssys, and *******s dont
pyssys apologize when they arent wrong
*******s dont when they are wrong
moral of the story be a man
So far most people here think that it is just a waste of your time.
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Men apologize when they are wrong
pyssys, and *******s dont
pyssys apologize when they arent wrong
*******s dont when they are wrong
moral of the story be a man
Women "say" they want you to appoligize when THEY feel you should. Even when you didn't do anything where you should appoligize for. But we all know we should all pay attention to what they DO, not what they say.
So yeah, they want you to appoligize more times then not even if you weren't wrong in your actions.
So yeah, they want you to appoligize more times then not even if you weren't wrong in your actions.
LongDrinkofWater
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I look at this apology thing on a case-by-case basis. If an apology seems in order, HOW the apology is delivered has to be considered. If you stand there swishing your foot from side to side, shoulders slumped and staring at the ground while mumbling 'sorry dear' or something, then you may as well go home. If on the other hand, you step on her foot (lol), I see nothing wrong with a quick oops, sorry!
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Only if you've screwed-up really bad, or done something klutzy and accidental, like stepping on her foot. In the first case, apologize like a man, and own up to your mistake. In the second case, make it sort of humorous (sort of like a Get Smart "sorry about that, Chief", comic voice and all, if you catch my drift).
Definitely not if a gal says "are you making fun of me," or some such. Then run with it.
Definitely not if a gal says "are you making fun of me," or some such. Then run with it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should only apologize for something if you did wrong. never say you are sorry when you didnt cause it.
if you are wrong and realize it, you should apologize to the person you wronged.
if you are wrong and realize it, you should apologize to the person you wronged.
bbestar
Banned
My dad has been married to my mom for 22 years..
all this time, Ive never heard him say.. Im sorry or I love you to my mom, or me.
thats what I call, the Ironman
all this time, Ive never heard him say.. Im sorry or I love you to my mom, or me.
thats what I call, the Ironman