Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do women like it when you say sorry?

Do women like it when you say sorry?

  • No, they are cold hearted bit-ches

    Votes: 3 4.8%
  • No, you will just look weak

    Votes: 26 41.9%
  • There is no point because women always think they are right anyway

    Votes: 16 25.8%
  • Yes, and when you do they realize that you are REAL man.

    Votes: 13 21.0%
  • Yes, it makes them wet

    Votes: 4 6.5%

  • Total voters
    62

Malachi

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
There are some people who are voting that it makes a woman realize that you are a real man.

Could you please provide examples of this? It is nice to imagine that it is true but if you can't back it up with exampels then don't vote for that one.

I think that women will only put you on a guilt trip if you say you are sorry. I'm not convinced that women are very forgiving because they will always bring the past up and use it to their advantage.

This is very true...the past always get's brought up in arguements with the women i've spoken to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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00Kevin

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wow... only 32% of the people here think that it is ok to say you are sorry.


That is very telling.
 

MightyMate

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I say sorry if i step on her foot, or i i pat her by mistake. But never i say sorry wfor stuff that i said or did. I always tell her why i did something but i didnt mean to do wrong. Girls get disapointed if You say sorry. Trust me.
 

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You say sorry that means you except all responsibility and you are WRONG. Never say it to make her feel better or to end an argument or any other reason but when you are truly sorry.

I don't apologize for my actions and my decisions unless I did something wrong and I realize that I should not have done that.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by Bourne
You say sorry that means you except all responsibility and you are WRONG. Never say it to make her feel better or to end an argument or any other reason but when you are truly sorry.

I don't apologize for my actions and my decisions unless I did something wrong and I realize that I should not have done that.
I agree with you. But what I am asking is if you think women care or not when you say sorry.


So far most people here think that it is just a waste of your time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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frivolousz21

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I agree with you. But what I am asking is if you think women care or not when you say sorry.


So far most people here think that it is just a waste of your time.

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Men apologize when they are wrong

pyssys, and *******s dont

pyssys apologize when they arent wrong

*******s dont when they are wrong


moral of the story be a man
 

Bourne

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Women "say" they want you to appoligize when THEY feel you should. Even when you didn't do anything where you should appoligize for. But we all know we should all pay attention to what they DO, not what they say.

So yeah, they want you to appoligize more times then not even if you weren't wrong in your actions.
 

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I look at this apology thing on a case-by-case basis. If an apology seems in order, HOW the apology is delivered has to be considered. If you stand there swishing your foot from side to side, shoulders slumped and staring at the ground while mumbling 'sorry dear' or something, then you may as well go home. If on the other hand, you step on her foot (lol), I see nothing wrong with a quick oops, sorry!
 

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Only if you've screwed-up really bad, or done something klutzy and accidental, like stepping on her foot. In the first case, apologize like a man, and own up to your mistake. In the second case, make it sort of humorous (sort of like a Get Smart "sorry about that, Chief", comic voice and all, if you catch my drift).

Definitely not if a gal says "are you making fun of me," or some such. Then run with it.
 

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if i bump into her or something of that nature i usually just say "oops", or make it look like i did it on purpose to tease her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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you should only apologize for something if you did wrong. never say you are sorry when you didnt cause it.

if you are wrong and realize it, you should apologize to the person you wronged.
 

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lol... wonder how long this thread will go!?
 
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