Malachi
Don Juan
This is very true...the past always get's brought up in arguements with the women i've spoken to.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do women like it when you say sorry?
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This is very true...the past always get's brought up in arguements with the women i've spoken to.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MightyMate
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I say sorry if i step on her foot, or i i pat her by mistake. But never i say sorry wfor stuff that i said or did. I always tell her why i did something but i didnt mean to do wrong. Girls get disapointed if You say sorry. Trust me.
You say sorry that means you except all responsibility and you are WRONG. Never say it to make her feel better or to end an argument or any other reason but when you are truly sorry.
I don't apologize for my actions and my decisions unless I did something wrong and I realize that I should not have done that.
I don't apologize for my actions and my decisions unless I did something wrong and I realize that I should not have done that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I agree with you. But what I am asking is if you think women care or not when you say sorry.
So far most people here think that it is just a waste of your time.
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Men apologize when they are wrong
pyssys, and *******s dont
pyssys apologize when they arent wrong
*******s dont when they are wrong
moral of the story be a man
So far most people here think that it is just a waste of your time.
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Men apologize when they are wrong
pyssys, and *******s dont
pyssys apologize when they arent wrong
*******s dont when they are wrong
moral of the story be a man
Women "say" they want you to appoligize when THEY feel you should. Even when you didn't do anything where you should appoligize for. But we all know we should all pay attention to what they DO, not what they say.
So yeah, they want you to appoligize more times then not even if you weren't wrong in your actions.
So yeah, they want you to appoligize more times then not even if you weren't wrong in your actions.
LongDrinkofWater
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I look at this apology thing on a case-by-case basis. If an apology seems in order, HOW the apology is delivered has to be considered. If you stand there swishing your foot from side to side, shoulders slumped and staring at the ground while mumbling 'sorry dear' or something, then you may as well go home. If on the other hand, you step on her foot (lol), I see nothing wrong with a quick oops, sorry!
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Only if you've screwed-up really bad, or done something klutzy and accidental, like stepping on her foot. In the first case, apologize like a man, and own up to your mistake. In the second case, make it sort of humorous (sort of like a Get Smart "sorry about that, Chief", comic voice and all, if you catch my drift).
Definitely not if a gal says "are you making fun of me," or some such. Then run with it.
Definitely not if a gal says "are you making fun of me," or some such. Then run with it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should only apologize for something if you did wrong. never say you are sorry when you didnt cause it.
if you are wrong and realize it, you should apologize to the person you wronged.
if you are wrong and realize it, you should apologize to the person you wronged.
bbestar
Banned
My dad has been married to my mom for 22 years..
all this time, Ive never heard him say.. Im sorry or I love you to my mom, or me.
thats what I call, the Ironman
all this time, Ive never heard him say.. Im sorry or I love you to my mom, or me.
thats what I call, the Ironman