"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do Women Expect Men to be Infinitely Strong?

bigneil

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Is it just me, or does it seem like women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to a man expressing any kind of weakness?

Examples:

1) If you're sad that you lost you're job, you're not strong enough for her.
2) If you're sad that your grandmother died, you're not strong enough for her.
3) If you're sad that she doesn't love you, you're not strong enough for her.

I know that in the old days women understood that by boosting her man's ego, by letting him know she supported him no matter what, that it ultimately made their man stronger, and in the process it made her relationship and herself stronger as well.

But these days, doesn't it seem as though they are holding us to impossible standards? Sorry girls, but I still get depressed once every 60 days or so.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's not the last century of women anymore.
The current crop is severely lacking in female attributes. IMO
 

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what the fvck type of women have you been encountering...?

if anything, i'd advise you to stay away from women like that... problem solved; you won't have to deal with them no more.

guys can complain about women all they want (im not saying you are) but you aint doin nun productive if you not taking action. and by taking action, all you have to do is stop talking to girls who are the lowest of the lowest. if you have to, cut down the number of girls you have if they're shallow b1tches. No one's forcing you to talk to em.


but i'll admit, there are women like this that ive seen. you're seen as a little b1tch even the second you make a complaint, whether it be a big matter or a small one.

in this day and age, it seems absurd to some people that men can have emotions, and display them... its insane that some people dont think men should show their emotions, or have them... the fvck? we're human, we HAVE emotions for a reason. otherwise, we wouldn't have them, no? things exist for reasons

its one thing to have emotions and display them, but i still think as a man you should have your emotions under control. after all, you are yourself and no one controls you but you. no one can make you mad except yourself. if you get mad, you choose to get mad. you control your emotions. you control yourself.
 
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