"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do women ever catch guys who lie about their height?

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It's a little off topic, but quite relevent nonetheless:

People's perception of your actual height can be skewed for so many reasons!

- If your are fat, you will look shorter

- If your legs are shorter (proportionally speaking), you will look shorter

- If your head is bigger(proportionally speaking), you will look shorter

What's very important:

- If you give out this confident aura (not to be mistaken with the over-compensating agressive "confidence"), you will "look" much taller

- If you practice sports that make you fit and toned, you will look taller

- However, if you become a musclehead, you will look shorter

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NickBe said:
I slept with a 6"1 who was easily a 10 a few weeks ago. I am 5"7
BS. Just cos its coming from you, the cold hearted playa....lol, the 5'7" cold hearted playa :rolleyes:
 

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Girls that are 6'1 are not tens. I don't care how hot she is. It doesn't happen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alkali said:
Girls that are 6'1 are not tens. I don't care how hot she is. It doesn't happen.
What was that? I had to read it three times to make sure that is what you said.

Women that are 6"1 can not be 10's? Are you sure about that? Well I have to say I think Adriana Sklenarikova might have something to say about that.

http://www.hollywood-celebrity-pict...iana-Sklenarikova/Adriana-Sklenarikova-60.JPG

So might Saffron Burrows

http://images.askmen.com/galleries/actress/saffron-burrows/pictures/saffron-burrows-picture-1.jpg

How about Famke Janssen? She is only 5"11 but in heels she is pushing 6"1

http://blogs.allocine.fr/blogsdatas...83607531/img/famke-janssen-1024x768-19109.jpg

Sigourney Weaver measured in at 5"12 if I remember correctly not really my type but in her day I am sure many a man would have called her a 10.

I always liked Uma Thurman 6"0

Elle McPherson world famous model in her prime easily a 10 she is 6"0

Aisha Tyler 6"0

http://images.google.com.au/imgres?...channel=s&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&sa=N

Oh what about Tara Moss 6"1 never really my type but I am sure a lot of people would give her at least a 9 if not a 10 when she was in her prime.

Almost forgot British supermodel Jodie Kidd she is 6"1

http://www.webwombat.com.au/lifestyle/fashion_beauty/images/kidd4.jpg

Brazilian model Ana Hickman 6'1

http://www.terra.com.br/istoegente/160/fotos/ana_hickmann.jpg

I am sure you can not find anybody on that list that is a 10 right?

Idiot.....
 

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L777 said:
BS. Just cos its coming from you, the cold hearted playa....lol, the 5'7" cold hearted playa :rolleyes:
One would think if I was completely lying about who I was I would make myself a few inches taller? no?

Just like I would say my d*ck in 9 inches when in reality its just under 7 inches.
 

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The height thing with girls has nothing to do with you. It has to do with her insecurities of not being feminine enough. Too masculine by HER being taller than a man.

Turn it around on her and say, "I'm 5 8' but I've dated girls who weren't insecure about her height who were over 6' feet tall." Plenty of "hot guys" are under 6" tall. Just as an example...wasn't Tupac short? Bon Jovi? Brad Pitt? I think you get the idea.
 
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