"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do women ever break it off with guys to test how much you care about them?

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do women ever break up with guys they've been seeing just to test how interested he really is in her? (as in if he doesn't come back to chase her then 'he wasn't worth it')

i know on here they say don't chase just no contact but is it just wishful thinking that she is testing you?

i'm assuming if she thinks you're a playa and only interested in her for 1 thing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Umm no, big weezy. Never had that happen.
 
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thats wishful thinking. and if a girl actually did that, i would assume
she's a wacko. lose lose.
 
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If a girl breaks it off with me I assume she isn't interested and I'll chalk it up as a loss and move on. If a girl thinks that by pulling this nonsense on me she'll increase my interest and I'll come running back to her like a love sick puppy dog then she's in for a surprise. If I want to play games, I'll play FIFA 12 or Monopoly.
 
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i see.. i remember a girl i was seeing back in the day thought i was a playa and broke up with me cos she felt i was only after 1 thing. we hadn't had sex yet so it obviously isn't a break up but her friends told me that she did it to test if i really liked her or not or only after sex. i had other options at the time.

maybe she had a different agenda?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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big weezy said:
maybe she had a different agenda?
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I tend to stay away from people with agenda's. Agenda's are nasty things my friend, nasty things.
 
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