"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do women ever break it off with guys to test how much you care about them?

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do women ever break up with guys they've been seeing just to test how interested he really is in her? (as in if he doesn't come back to chase her then 'he wasn't worth it')

i know on here they say don't chase just no contact but is it just wishful thinking that she is testing you?

i'm assuming if she thinks you're a playa and only interested in her for 1 thing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Umm no, big weezy. Never had that happen.
 
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thats wishful thinking. and if a girl actually did that, i would assume
she's a wacko. lose lose.
 
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If a girl breaks it off with me I assume she isn't interested and I'll chalk it up as a loss and move on. If a girl thinks that by pulling this nonsense on me she'll increase my interest and I'll come running back to her like a love sick puppy dog then she's in for a surprise. If I want to play games, I'll play FIFA 12 or Monopoly.
 
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i see.. i remember a girl i was seeing back in the day thought i was a playa and broke up with me cos she felt i was only after 1 thing. we hadn't had sex yet so it obviously isn't a break up but her friends told me that she did it to test if i really liked her or not or only after sex. i had other options at the time.

maybe she had a different agenda?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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big weezy said:
maybe she had a different agenda?
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I tend to stay away from people with agenda's. Agenda's are nasty things my friend, nasty things.
 
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