"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jair213 said:
Was talkin to op

But good sh!tt brahhh. Im getting shredded too. Being bodybuilding For about 2 years now. Man. The effect of a muscular body plays a big role. I notice the same effects too..
I have an above average physique, but I've never had a fitness model/bodybuilder's physique.

I go through periods where I work out regularly and other times where I don't.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JaegerPilot217 said:
awesome, glad to hear about the exceptions, yes I know they are rare but when they happen, and it you end up getting laid by a girls initiative, im sure its a much bigger confidence booster
I'm at the point where I no longer really get a confidence boost from pulling girls. I'm just looking for a cool chick.

Usually after I've woken up and I'm given the chance to see the girl I ****ed without her makeup, I end up feeling regretful more than anything.
 

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guytime said:
I have an above average physique, but I've never had a fitness model/bodybuilder's physique.

I go through periods where I work out regularly and other times where I don't.
Hey bro didnt specifically mean harving a bodybuilders physique. If you have a lean fit physique the bishes should be Mirin hard..
 

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In my experience, this has everything to do with mood, body language, and aura.

Women pick up on this **** ten times more than men, and most men (myself included) are not always aware what they're projecting.

I've tested this, and definitely get more action when I force myself to have a more inviting vibe. I have friends that are magnetic, and everywhere we go women just seem at ease with them. Haven't figured out how to emulate it yet, but I'd damn sure like some suggestions! Lol
 

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If women are not throwing themselves at you, you're doing it wrong. Go back to the psychological drawing board and figure out childhood traumas, relationship with your parents, etc. Get everything straightened out and make things easier on yourself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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From my experience, high school girls were more likely to make the first move than college girls were, college girls are more passive
 

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It's pretty rare that girls have directly approached me. The ones that have usually haven't been the prettiest.

What I've noticed is that the more attractive women do it a little differently: If they're interested they'll make sure they're in your vicinity - constantly trying to capture your attention so you'll initiate conversation with them. I guess girls prefer men to take the lead.. but it makes sense I suppose.
 

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SteR said:
It's pretty rare that girls have directly approached me. The ones that have usually haven't been the prettiest.

What I've noticed is that the more attractive women do it a little differently: If they're interested they'll make sure they're in your vicinity - constantly trying to capture your attention so you'll initiate conversation with them. I guess girls prefer men to take the lead.. but it makes sense I suppose.
Yeah the more desirable a woman is, the more likely she will expect the man to take the lead, initiate things, But what I can't stand is when taken girls, girls who have a boyfriend already, give out flirty signals, like smile and look at me, give a come hither look in order for me to approach them, and after I have approached and talked to them, and then find out they have a boyfriend, it makes me feel like I wasted my breath talking to them
 

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When I was in better shape and really shy and a beta male believe it or not I was getting approached a lot. Girls were telling my friends I was "fine" Gained some weight not in bad shape per se, but a little chunky and it doesn't happen as often, but it still does. Not trying to toot my own horn. I have been called ugly to haahahahahahahaha
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
When I was in better shape and really shy and a beta male believe it or not I was getting approached a lot. Girls were telling my friends I was "fine" Gained some weight not in bad shape per se, but a little chunky and it doesn't happen as often, but it still does. Not trying to toot my own horn. I have been called ugly to haahahahahahahaha
In what type of settings were you getting approached at? In school? Bars?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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