i watched goodlookingloser's vid on do what you want.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jMxCyE1xfg
i have a hard time applying this. trust your instincts, it comes down to my thinking vs my instincts. this has brought me into a great conflict within myself. ive discovered that i overthink everything i do. im neurotic as hell. when i do something i often waste time doing unnecessary things.
for example i went to walmart a while ago to buy some paint. im taking up a new hobby spray paint art. im cheap so i didnt want to get many colors. after a while of debating i said fvck it and bought all colors i wanted and left. i did what i wanted and now im happy.
after all that bs was over i saw this hot blonde not far away. i stared at her a$$ while she reached up to a shelf. i noticed she had some rings on and figured she was married but i wasnt close enough to tell if it was a band. so i got worried and didnt approach. i WANTED to approach but i didnt.
i think i fvck myself most of the time. i saw this girl from my class in the gym yesterday and i didnt approach because she was with friends playing volleyball. i wanted to but....
i know that you cant always do what you want. its how to apply it that is my problem. i COULD HAVE approached both of those. if i did i may have gotten totally shot down. i regret it but i also hate rejection. when do you do what you want and when do you not? whats you input on this?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jMxCyE1xfg
i have a hard time applying this. trust your instincts, it comes down to my thinking vs my instincts. this has brought me into a great conflict within myself. ive discovered that i overthink everything i do. im neurotic as hell. when i do something i often waste time doing unnecessary things.
for example i went to walmart a while ago to buy some paint. im taking up a new hobby spray paint art. im cheap so i didnt want to get many colors. after a while of debating i said fvck it and bought all colors i wanted and left. i did what i wanted and now im happy.
after all that bs was over i saw this hot blonde not far away. i stared at her a$$ while she reached up to a shelf. i noticed she had some rings on and figured she was married but i wasnt close enough to tell if it was a band. so i got worried and didnt approach. i WANTED to approach but i didnt.
i think i fvck myself most of the time. i saw this girl from my class in the gym yesterday and i didnt approach because she was with friends playing volleyball. i wanted to but....
i know that you cant always do what you want. its how to apply it that is my problem. i COULD HAVE approached both of those. if i did i may have gotten totally shot down. i regret it but i also hate rejection. when do you do what you want and when do you not? whats you input on this?