"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do we need a College Forum?

Do you think we need a seperate College Forum?

  • Yes

    Votes: 20 71.4%
  • No

    Votes: 8 28.6%

  • Total voters
    28

SnatchJP

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I personally think we do; we have a forum for guys 18 and under, one for guys 25 and older, I think we need one for college kids! I'm a high school senior, (04 BABY!!!) and I know for a fact that college life and DJing is going to be DRASCTICALLY different from what it's like in High school. Since it'll be so different we should give it its own forum so we don't have to clutter up the high school and general boards.

But thats just my opinion. Vote in the poll and state yours!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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imnexthere

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I could go either way on this one. As long as we keep seeing college centered posts esp. as us seniors are wrapping up hs i dont mind being lumped in with the "kids" in the HS forum. But if sosuave feels like putting up a college forum that would be cool
 

blienk

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I vote yes. College is, IMO, the prime time of a guy's DJing life. A dedicated forum would be nice.
 

oakraiderz2

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We dont NEED one, but i guess itd be cool.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by blienk
College is, IMO, the prime time of a guy's DJing life.
I agree whole hartedly.

We dont NEED one, but i guess itd be cool.
I also agree with that, we don't NEED one, mostly cause in college your to busy to be worrying about posting, yet it would be cool to have a dedicated forum.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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Yeah thank God for the last 2 posters because I was going crazy in my head "did they just take out the discussion forum!?!?"
 

The Antichrist_Star

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I noticed that most of the people requesting such a forum are still in High School (although they soon may be graduates). What you will realize (once you get to college of course) is that college and High School is not that much different than people make it out to be... therefore there is really no need for a such a forum.

Everybody does it... it's just that nobody talks about it.
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded
I noticed that most of the people requesting such a forum are still in High School (although they soon may be graduates). What you will realize (once you get to college of course) is that college and High School is not that much different than people make it out to be... therefore there is really no need for a such a forum.

Everybody does it... it's just that nobody talks about it.
Very true. Only four differences between High School and College.

- You are paying a lot for college

- More open parties

- More free time

- Live on campus
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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