You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's actually a pretty interesting question.Solomon said:lol who cares, why u so worried about ugly chicks?
Luminescence said:It's actually a pretty interesting question.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I would concentrate on improving myself and being the best man I could be, rather than worrying if girls who you don't find attractive are sleeping with guys.nonameok said:I see lots of ugly girls dressed real nice, tight pants and whatever else and I'm just curious if there are men out there that be doing these girls. I'm talking about really ugly girls.
Exactly!!!Maxtro said:Short answer: They get as much sex as they want.
No matter how fat or ugly a girl is they can basically get sex whenever they want. She may not get the guy she wants but she will find somebody.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The same could be said about any women or men...No matter how fat or ugly a girl is they can basically get sex whenever they want. She may not get the guy she wants but she will find somebody.
No the same can not be said of men. If that was true then this site and others like it wouldn't exist.SXS said:The same could be said about any women or men...
hell nah i fell out my chair laughing at that, yea ugly chicks get boned, I have one on my list atm, I don't discriminateSan Jose California said:You really have to stop posting in bold DonJuan11, or even better period. Everyone knows you're an inexperienced tool and just post here for "forums status" or some bs reason.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I wish to increase my post count as much as possible.San Jose California said:You really have to stop posting in bold DonJuan11, or even better period. Everyone knows you're an inexperienced tool and just post here for "forums status" or some bs reason.
and where are those good old fashioned values, on which we used to rely? Lucky there's a Family Guy.HolyG said:Why does it seem today, that all you see, is violence in movies and sex on TV?
HAHA, new season of FG just started in UKHolyG said:Do all trees have to be 15 feet tall? How many drops of water are required before you can classify something as a lake instead of a pond? How many ants are in the state of California? Do giraffes have lots of sex? Which ones get laid and which do not? Why does it seem today, that all you see, is violence in movies and sex on TV?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.