Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's actually a pretty interesting question.Solomon said:lol who cares, why u so worried about ugly chicks?
Luminescence said:It's actually a pretty interesting question.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I would concentrate on improving myself and being the best man I could be, rather than worrying if girls who you don't find attractive are sleeping with guys.nonameok said:I see lots of ugly girls dressed real nice, tight pants and whatever else and I'm just curious if there are men out there that be doing these girls. I'm talking about really ugly girls.
Exactly!!!Maxtro said:Short answer: They get as much sex as they want.
No matter how fat or ugly a girl is they can basically get sex whenever they want. She may not get the guy she wants but she will find somebody.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The same could be said about any women or men...No matter how fat or ugly a girl is they can basically get sex whenever they want. She may not get the guy she wants but she will find somebody.
No the same can not be said of men. If that was true then this site and others like it wouldn't exist.SXS said:The same could be said about any women or men...
hell nah i fell out my chair laughing at that, yea ugly chicks get boned, I have one on my list atm, I don't discriminateSan Jose California said:You really have to stop posting in bold DonJuan11, or even better period. Everyone knows you're an inexperienced tool and just post here for "forums status" or some bs reason.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I wish to increase my post count as much as possible.San Jose California said:You really have to stop posting in bold DonJuan11, or even better period. Everyone knows you're an inexperienced tool and just post here for "forums status" or some bs reason.
and where are those good old fashioned values, on which we used to rely? Lucky there's a Family Guy.HolyG said:Why does it seem today, that all you see, is violence in movies and sex on TV?
HAHA, new season of FG just started in UKHolyG said:Do all trees have to be 15 feet tall? How many drops of water are required before you can classify something as a lake instead of a pond? How many ants are in the state of California? Do giraffes have lots of sex? Which ones get laid and which do not? Why does it seem today, that all you see, is violence in movies and sex on TV?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.