You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol. she was feeling guilty that she sept with me so soon i guess? Funny thing is after wards we watched a 2 hr movie and she jumped on me again lol. I'm learning that girls may be even hornier than guys. I didnt even want to the 2nd time.Rex Man said:"Not if you give me back my money!"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nah i think she loves sex, she wanted to do it twice that night. And she's mentioned that she has done it in cars and hotels before so im sure she was just embarassed for enjoying it so much and cuz it was so soon. I hope ur wrong, she seems great so far.Ashley Chuckles said:I guarantee she's messed up in some way... any chick that doesn't understand that sex can be fun, and fvckin someone you're attracted to is completely normal has some problems...
I'd bear this in mind before you start getting too attached... more revelations will follow