She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
lol. she was feeling guilty that she sept with me so soon i guess? Funny thing is after wards we watched a 2 hr movie and she jumped on me again lol. I'm learning that girls may be even hornier than guys. I didnt even want to the 2nd time.Rex Man said:"Not if you give me back my money!"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nah i think she loves sex, she wanted to do it twice that night. And she's mentioned that she has done it in cars and hotels before so im sure she was just embarassed for enjoying it so much and cuz it was so soon. I hope ur wrong, she seems great so far.Ashley Chuckles said:I guarantee she's messed up in some way... any chick that doesn't understand that sex can be fun, and fvckin someone you're attracted to is completely normal has some problems...
I'd bear this in mind before you start getting too attached... more revelations will follow