It's been a while since I've posted on SS. Been actively reading threads over the years every now and then. So my abbreviations are from the old days of SS.
After coming out of a LTR and observing the dating world, apps, friends, acquaintances, social media etc. I've noticed that the culture and quality of people have tanked significantly by where most women SMV has been inflated more so than where they actually are, resulting in their egos becoming hyper-inflated especially through social media.
I remember not so long ago, (pre-pandemic) where the qualities of a DJ made you stand out and automatically gravitated women of similar calibre towards yourself. Aside from that, I also remember the self confidence that would show through and essentially build your physical and mental frame to be solid. Even AFC's that don't know anything about SS had a mentality where they would improve themselves for their benefit or hold themselves accountable for their actions, willpower and desires.
However what I am noticing now is that most people aren't taking pride in their basics i.e: Having hobbies, improving their SMV in a healthy way, learning new things, having and maintain a proper mentality/ frame, blaming a victim mentality/ unhealthy mindset, and are willing to scrape the bottom of the barrel, basically not being a proper man.
So the main question I'm asking is: (I know inwardly for oneself own gain and growth it is still applicable) Is the constant improvement of oneself i.e: Learning new skills, physical activities, exercising, holding yourself to a set standard, constantly building and getting and becoming a better DJ better still applicable in todays society of dating/ spinning plates. Does it still get the same feedback outwardly?
After coming out of a LTR and observing the dating world, apps, friends, acquaintances, social media etc. I've noticed that the culture and quality of people have tanked significantly by where most women SMV has been inflated more so than where they actually are, resulting in their egos becoming hyper-inflated especially through social media.
I remember not so long ago, (pre-pandemic) where the qualities of a DJ made you stand out and automatically gravitated women of similar calibre towards yourself. Aside from that, I also remember the self confidence that would show through and essentially build your physical and mental frame to be solid. Even AFC's that don't know anything about SS had a mentality where they would improve themselves for their benefit or hold themselves accountable for their actions, willpower and desires.
However what I am noticing now is that most people aren't taking pride in their basics i.e: Having hobbies, improving their SMV in a healthy way, learning new things, having and maintain a proper mentality/ frame, blaming a victim mentality/ unhealthy mindset, and are willing to scrape the bottom of the barrel, basically not being a proper man.
So the main question I'm asking is: (I know inwardly for oneself own gain and growth it is still applicable) Is the constant improvement of oneself i.e: Learning new skills, physical activities, exercising, holding yourself to a set standard, constantly building and getting and becoming a better DJ better still applicable in todays society of dating/ spinning plates. Does it still get the same feedback outwardly?
