"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do the advice in this forum only work in an open country like the US?

aschillascanbe

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I live in Singapore, a country in Asia, mostly english speaking. From what I've read on this forum, people getting digits in coffee shop, spinning plates and what not, there isn't really that much happening here.

Most people I know got together through the most ***** ass way this forum would consider. Things like, buying expensive gifts for girls wishing they would fall in love (and get rejected most of the time), getting to know a girl in class through facebook, instead of just walking straight up to her and talk, etc. I had a close friend once where he did the facebook thing, proceeds to message the girl everyday, buy her stuff like strepsils when she was sick, all before even asking her out. It worked out eventually and they got together after maybe like 6 months?

Moving on, there is one ther guy I know, same age as me (23), he is currently a student and has a girlfriend living with him who is literally leeching off him every cent. His family isn't exactly that well-off but he doesn't work and I suppose all his money comes from his dad. Most pathetic story I've heard so far. Oh wait, there was another guy who even did his girlfriend's laundry, class assignments and who knows what.

What would you guys do in a country where bunch of ***** ass guys are treating girls like they are princesses? Not to mention people aren't exactly friendly around here lol. All in all, most people are just uncomfortable with pretty high defensive mechanism.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zinc4

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I live in Taiwan so I can indentity 100 percent...Asian women in t general have giant princess complexes because of the guys here....one thing...don't neg nearly as much unless you are certain the girl is q slutty foreign chaser than really neg in a very playful way... and do buy drinks and unfortunately pay for dates....or you'll look socially inadequate.... but overall, same principles apply...bag them and tag em...also they like the dumbest style of humour... and can't dance worth a crap...like cute little bangable squeeky robots...girly on the outside but cold and not much soul or life on the inside...generally speaking by that is...
 

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What would you guys do in a country where bunch of ***** ass guys are treating girls like they are princesses? Not to mention people aren't exactly friendly around here lol. All in all, most people are just uncomfortable with pretty high defensive mechanism.
Game works the same everywhere. In places like these one just needs to increase the numbers. A little more warmer than plain cold approach would do but still, no more than back and forth a couple of times. Also cold approach whenever you visit larger and more modern parts of where ever it is that you are.

At any cost do not adopt the beta traits path unless that's what you really want.
 

Konada

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Hi there I live in Singapore as well. What sage_juan said, game works everywhere, just that you really have to step up numbers in cold approaching. Club game is prolly the same.

The advice here is pretty much universal in terms of being a quality man, dealing with chick games etc. For myself, I have my dad as an exemplar of what this site preaches about so I know this stuff works (of course wih my own experiences as well). The only reason my HB8 sister isn't attached is because he set such a high standard for being a man.

And to be honest, people acting cold is just a facade. Trying smiling and saying hi to your neighbours. Some might be weirdes out but keep doing it and they will respond in kind eventually. The best way to disarm a person's coldness is through positivity. Best of luck!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey im from sg too, girls i know are pretty cool people and the only ones i have trouble with are the girls i like lol. wish i could do without the phrase " you want what you cant have "
 

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women will always be women. no matter if they are from africa or brazil.
 

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I don't think this advice would work in India.

There, the only way you're getting laid is if you meet a girl through your family, and have an arranged marriage with her.

Some people in big cities like Mumbai might get laid from clubs, but only a very select few (very wealthy guys).

Here, a bum with a shaved head and tattoos can clean up with women by being alpha and negging them like crazy. He doesn't need to have a job, or a life.

A guy like that in India would be ostracized and depressed.
 

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There, the only way you're getting laid is if you meet a girl through your family, and have an arranged marriage with her.
More numbers + MGTOW... The more BETA the mindset of a place the more it sucks to be a BETA at that place.
 

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Doing and saying AFC sh!t is only AFC if you believe the sh!t. If being an AFC with oneitis works, then do it...for several different girls several times a day :) The difference between the DJ and the AFC is not the technique, it's the results.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sage_juan

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If being an AFC with oneitis works, then do it...for several different girls several times a day.
Reminds me of the cliche "Where there is a will there is a way!" Bang on advice this :rockon:
 
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