"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do the advice in this forum only work in an open country like the US?

aschillascanbe

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I live in Singapore, a country in Asia, mostly english speaking. From what I've read on this forum, people getting digits in coffee shop, spinning plates and what not, there isn't really that much happening here.

Most people I know got together through the most ***** ass way this forum would consider. Things like, buying expensive gifts for girls wishing they would fall in love (and get rejected most of the time), getting to know a girl in class through facebook, instead of just walking straight up to her and talk, etc. I had a close friend once where he did the facebook thing, proceeds to message the girl everyday, buy her stuff like strepsils when she was sick, all before even asking her out. It worked out eventually and they got together after maybe like 6 months?

Moving on, there is one ther guy I know, same age as me (23), he is currently a student and has a girlfriend living with him who is literally leeching off him every cent. His family isn't exactly that well-off but he doesn't work and I suppose all his money comes from his dad. Most pathetic story I've heard so far. Oh wait, there was another guy who even did his girlfriend's laundry, class assignments and who knows what.

What would you guys do in a country where bunch of ***** ass guys are treating girls like they are princesses? Not to mention people aren't exactly friendly around here lol. All in all, most people are just uncomfortable with pretty high defensive mechanism.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I live in Taiwan so I can indentity 100 percent...Asian women in t general have giant princess complexes because of the guys here....one thing...don't neg nearly as much unless you are certain the girl is q slutty foreign chaser than really neg in a very playful way... and do buy drinks and unfortunately pay for dates....or you'll look socially inadequate.... but overall, same principles apply...bag them and tag em...also they like the dumbest style of humour... and can't dance worth a crap...like cute little bangable squeeky robots...girly on the outside but cold and not much soul or life on the inside...generally speaking by that is...
 

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What would you guys do in a country where bunch of ***** ass guys are treating girls like they are princesses? Not to mention people aren't exactly friendly around here lol. All in all, most people are just uncomfortable with pretty high defensive mechanism.
Game works the same everywhere. In places like these one just needs to increase the numbers. A little more warmer than plain cold approach would do but still, no more than back and forth a couple of times. Also cold approach whenever you visit larger and more modern parts of where ever it is that you are.

At any cost do not adopt the beta traits path unless that's what you really want.
 

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Hi there I live in Singapore as well. What sage_juan said, game works everywhere, just that you really have to step up numbers in cold approaching. Club game is prolly the same.

The advice here is pretty much universal in terms of being a quality man, dealing with chick games etc. For myself, I have my dad as an exemplar of what this site preaches about so I know this stuff works (of course wih my own experiences as well). The only reason my HB8 sister isn't attached is because he set such a high standard for being a man.

And to be honest, people acting cold is just a facade. Trying smiling and saying hi to your neighbours. Some might be weirdes out but keep doing it and they will respond in kind eventually. The best way to disarm a person's coldness is through positivity. Best of luck!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey im from sg too, girls i know are pretty cool people and the only ones i have trouble with are the girls i like lol. wish i could do without the phrase " you want what you cant have "
 

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women will always be women. no matter if they are from africa or brazil.
 

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I don't think this advice would work in India.

There, the only way you're getting laid is if you meet a girl through your family, and have an arranged marriage with her.

Some people in big cities like Mumbai might get laid from clubs, but only a very select few (very wealthy guys).

Here, a bum with a shaved head and tattoos can clean up with women by being alpha and negging them like crazy. He doesn't need to have a job, or a life.

A guy like that in India would be ostracized and depressed.
 

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There, the only way you're getting laid is if you meet a girl through your family, and have an arranged marriage with her.
More numbers + MGTOW... The more BETA the mindset of a place the more it sucks to be a BETA at that place.
 

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Doing and saying AFC sh!t is only AFC if you believe the sh!t. If being an AFC with oneitis works, then do it...for several different girls several times a day :) The difference between the DJ and the AFC is not the technique, it's the results.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sage_juan

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If being an AFC with oneitis works, then do it...for several different girls several times a day.
Reminds me of the cliche "Where there is a will there is a way!" Bang on advice this :rockon:
 
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