I was just wondering if anyone had a problem where the chick felt a guy was too tall for them. Sort of a reverse discrimination thing lol, sinc usually its the short guys that are judged. I am 6'2 not a giant or anything but the girl is 5'2 so it is a whole foot.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do short women not like tall men?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Make fun of her height.Master Bates
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Actually it seems shorter girls tend to prefer taller guys. Like they feel they need the protection or something. Maybe you just look like a geico caveman?
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If its a really big difference, like you're over 6ft and she's under 5ft, then you guys just look weird together.
But if its a reasonable difference, it doesn't matter. Girls tend to prefer guys to be taller than them, and guys tend to prefer girls to be shorter then them. It works.
But if its a reasonable difference, it doesn't matter. Girls tend to prefer guys to be taller than them, and guys tend to prefer girls to be shorter then them. It works.
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im 6'4" and my gf is 5'2" and we both love it. i can easily curl her body.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
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i am 5' and my ex husband was 6'4.
there weren't any problems about height.
there weren't any problems about height.
I don't know but I know I'm not a big fan of short girls.
I'm 6' and was bangin this girl that was about a foot shorter than me a while ago. Didn't like it one bit.
There is something about tall chicks that I really dig, maybe because its more women? Actually, I'm pretty sure
its because I like long ass legs.. anyway, I'm digressing here.
I'm 6' and was bangin this girl that was about a foot shorter than me a while ago. Didn't like it one bit.
There is something about tall chicks that I really dig, maybe because its more women? Actually, I'm pretty sure
its because I like long ass legs.. anyway, I'm digressing here.
The Juan and only
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Whether there is a tendency or probability weighting or not (and that's all there will be), I ask you...why worry about it?
You can't change your height, so do what you can and see what happens eh?
Too many people ask questions, and not enough find out for themselves. Fact is, experience will crush the doubts that theory cannot solve.
You can't change your height, so do what you can and see what happens eh?
Too many people ask questions, and not enough find out for themselves. Fact is, experience will crush the doubts that theory cannot solve.
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wow... people.
i felt an urge to go into a big, long reply.
but it's just easier to say that everyone has their own preference.
do a search btw. you are in no way unique with the problem of height.
i felt an urge to go into a big, long reply.
but it's just easier to say that everyone has their own preference.
do a search btw. you are in no way unique with the problem of height.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Juan and only
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Yes, everyone has their own preference. And every relationship is slightly different. Too many blanket statements on this site. Too much waffle. Maybe short sentences are better. Though this is. Getting ridiculous now. Nuff said.
L777
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Well a girl I'm seeing is 5'1 and I'm 6'2. She told me once that she "didn't want her kids to be too short, so I only dates guys over 5'9." Its an advantage man.
Randallpink83
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i'm 6'5 and have noticed that at times its harder to get more on the girls level (non-physical way). Kind of like they are intimidated or just lack of connection because physical they aint their with you, so it puts a psychological factor at times...
However other then that... My last gf was 5'2
However other then that... My last gf was 5'2
DJ1234
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all the small short chicks I see prefer taller guys. I see it all the time.. more than I see tall chicks w/ short guys...