"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do short women not like tall men?

zen511

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I was just wondering if anyone had a problem where the chick felt a guy was too tall for them. Sort of a reverse discrimination thing lol, sinc usually its the short guys that are judged. I am 6'2 not a giant or anything but the girl is 5'2 so it is a whole foot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HandyAndy

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im the same height, i know a super short girl that looks up to me like im a skyscraper. Its always fun to clown on shorts girls :D Make fun of her height.
 

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Actually it seems shorter girls tend to prefer taller guys. Like they feel they need the protection or something. Maybe you just look like a geico caveman?
 

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If its a really big difference, like you're over 6ft and she's under 5ft, then you guys just look weird together.

But if its a reasonable difference, it doesn't matter. Girls tend to prefer guys to be taller than them, and guys tend to prefer girls to be shorter then them. It works.
 

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im 6'4" and my gf is 5'2" and we both love it. i can easily curl her body.

-SLB
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i am 5' and my ex husband was 6'4.
there weren't any problems about height.
 

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I don't know but I know I'm not a big fan of short girls.

I'm 6' and was bangin this girl that was about a foot shorter than me a while ago. Didn't like it one bit.

There is something about tall chicks that I really dig, maybe because its more women? Actually, I'm pretty sure
its because I like long ass legs.. anyway, I'm digressing here.
 

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I'm 6'2" and my girl is 5'2". It doesn't really matter much when you're horizontal.
 

The Juan and only

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Whether there is a tendency or probability weighting or not (and that's all there will be), I ask you...why worry about it?


You can't change your height, so do what you can and see what happens eh?


Too many people ask questions, and not enough find out for themselves. Fact is, experience will crush the doubts that theory cannot solve.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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wow... people.

i felt an urge to go into a big, long reply.

but it's just easier to say that everyone has their own preference.

do a search btw. you are in no way unique with the problem of height.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Juan and only

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Yes, everyone has their own preference. And every relationship is slightly different. Too many blanket statements on this site. Too much waffle. Maybe short sentences are better. Though this is. Getting ridiculous now. Nuff said.
 

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Well a girl I'm seeing is 5'1 and I'm 6'2. She told me once that she "didn't want her kids to be too short, so I only dates guys over 5'9." Its an advantage man.
 

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i'm 6'5 and have noticed that at times its harder to get more on the girls level (non-physical way). Kind of like they are intimidated or just lack of connection because physical they aint their with you, so it puts a psychological factor at times...

However other then that... My last gf was 5'2
 
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