"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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do she want me or is she tryna use me?

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I've known this girl for a couple of years.I'd say hi to her. (not really interested n her).she's my best friend ex. He don't want 2 have nothing 2 do with her anymore.(Anyway). For the pass 2 or 3 months she has been coming 2 my house. she's a pot-head and she likes to drink alot. We get drunk together ,conversate,watch movies and play x-box 360.she spent the night with me one day and she let me finger pop her. WE HAVEN'T HAD SEX YET. We even KISSED. She told me the KISS felt good and she liked it. I told her I want 2 have sex with her. She said NO."Im not having sex with u and im not changing my mind". So I told her "if we can't have sex, we can't hang out and she can't come over. We stop speaking to each other for a week then she finds a way 2 come n see me.she keep coming 2 my house sometimes without calling.BOTTOM LINE IS:I WANT 2 HAVE SEX WITH HER,EVEN MAKE HER MY GF.I NEED HELP any ideas,opinions,suggestings,comments.do u think it will happen?it went from no now she said she was thinking bout it.1.WHAT'S GOING
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This whole paragraph is what's wrong.
You are what's wrong. She's probably drinking all your booze, smoking everything you have, and crashing at your place. Is she homeless?
 

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I can't read that crap.

My advice: Hop in a time machine. Repeat grades 1 - 8. Learn proper English. And try again.
 

Kailex

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So for 2-3 months, you've been hanging out with her. :cuss:

You told her that if she doesn't have sex with you, she couldn't come over, and yet, she still comes over AND uninvited. You definitely told her. You're a pushover right now. You're the friend she goes to see, smoke up with, drink with, when she's not banging the other 2-3 dudes that she has lined up.

How's that friendzone feeling?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't think she having sex wit anybody.she tell me about every other guy she talks 2 and she tell me what she does with them.
 

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Hi!

Dude, the guys are right:

- Try to make some effort to improve your way to write;

- Don´t let her push you around. Think with your head and not with your d***;

- Don´t believe in everything she tells you;

- Don´t you ever say to a women that you want to have sex with her. Either you act or be quiet.

Act like a man once and for all. Next time she goes to your place, just f*** her. Cut the chat and make the move, otherwise save the time, the booze and the cigarretes.


Take care!
 

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Here's what you do.

Next time she comes over make out with her, get her naked, and try to have sex with her.

Don't talk to her about having sex, Just do it™

Either you'll bang her or she will get pissed and leave. She may come back, she may not. If she comes back just try again. If not, you lose nothing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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^^^^What he said.....or try this it's guaranteed butt secks throw some light kino at her next time you know and tell her you need to talk to her alone real quick, boom isolate her. Pull out a rag with chloroform on it (you should have all this prepped before hand of course) and say something like "Wow geez this smells kind of funky" *motion for her to smell it*
 

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just get her really drunk and make a move. if she says no and thats what you really want from her then move on.

CarlitosWay said:
^^^^What he said.....or try this it's guaranteed butt secks throw some light kino at her next time you know and tell her you need to talk to her alone real quick, boom isolate her. Pull out a rag with chloroform on it (you should have all this prepped before hand of course) and say something like "Wow geez this smells kind of funky" *motion for her to smell it*
"Does this cloth smell like chloroform to you?"
 
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