"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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do she want me or is she tryna use me?

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I've known this girl for a couple of years.I'd say hi to her. (not really interested n her).she's my best friend ex. He don't want 2 have nothing 2 do with her anymore.(Anyway). For the pass 2 or 3 months she has been coming 2 my house. she's a pot-head and she likes to drink alot. We get drunk together ,conversate,watch movies and play x-box 360.she spent the night with me one day and she let me finger pop her. WE HAVEN'T HAD SEX YET. We even KISSED. She told me the KISS felt good and she liked it. I told her I want 2 have sex with her. She said NO."Im not having sex with u and im not changing my mind". So I told her "if we can't have sex, we can't hang out and she can't come over. We stop speaking to each other for a week then she finds a way 2 come n see me.she keep coming 2 my house sometimes without calling.BOTTOM LINE IS:I WANT 2 HAVE SEX WITH HER,EVEN MAKE HER MY GF.I NEED HELP any ideas,opinions,suggestings,comments.do u think it will happen?it went from no now she said she was thinking bout it.1.WHAT'S GOING
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This whole paragraph is what's wrong.
You are what's wrong. She's probably drinking all your booze, smoking everything you have, and crashing at your place. Is she homeless?
 

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I can't read that crap.

My advice: Hop in a time machine. Repeat grades 1 - 8. Learn proper English. And try again.
 

Kailex

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So for 2-3 months, you've been hanging out with her. :cuss:

You told her that if she doesn't have sex with you, she couldn't come over, and yet, she still comes over AND uninvited. You definitely told her. You're a pushover right now. You're the friend she goes to see, smoke up with, drink with, when she's not banging the other 2-3 dudes that she has lined up.

How's that friendzone feeling?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't think she having sex wit anybody.she tell me about every other guy she talks 2 and she tell me what she does with them.
 

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Hi!

Dude, the guys are right:

- Try to make some effort to improve your way to write;

- Don´t let her push you around. Think with your head and not with your d***;

- Don´t believe in everything she tells you;

- Don´t you ever say to a women that you want to have sex with her. Either you act or be quiet.

Act like a man once and for all. Next time she goes to your place, just f*** her. Cut the chat and make the move, otherwise save the time, the booze and the cigarretes.


Take care!
 

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Here's what you do.

Next time she comes over make out with her, get her naked, and try to have sex with her.

Don't talk to her about having sex, Just do it™

Either you'll bang her or she will get pissed and leave. She may come back, she may not. If she comes back just try again. If not, you lose nothing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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^^^^What he said.....or try this it's guaranteed butt secks throw some light kino at her next time you know and tell her you need to talk to her alone real quick, boom isolate her. Pull out a rag with chloroform on it (you should have all this prepped before hand of course) and say something like "Wow geez this smells kind of funky" *motion for her to smell it*
 

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just get her really drunk and make a move. if she says no and thats what you really want from her then move on.

CarlitosWay said:
^^^^What he said.....or try this it's guaranteed butt secks throw some light kino at her next time you know and tell her you need to talk to her alone real quick, boom isolate her. Pull out a rag with chloroform on it (you should have all this prepped before hand of course) and say something like "Wow geez this smells kind of funky" *motion for her to smell it*
"Does this cloth smell like chloroform to you?"
 
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