Is it just me or does it appear that people who have a harder time with rejection OR have fear of rejection generally avoid that person...of course its easy not to care about it if you really dont care (or are over that person).
Anyway I've had my times iwth the ex, and after the breakup when she would contact me, i would ignore or avoid her..it was tough then. She wanted to get back together but i didnt want to take the risk again. I finally got over her.
Thereafter we met a couple times and hung out. I didnt make a move cause i just wanted to be friends. shortly after that if she'd see me online, she would immediately put her away message. shortly she stopped going online and so did I. A couple weeks ago i called and we met up. Even then when i saw her online it was ok to talk to her. And again I just want to be friends with her. And since then whenever I go online she puts her away message up.
sigh..i have a hard time being friends with girls.
Anyway I've had my times iwth the ex, and after the breakup when she would contact me, i would ignore or avoid her..it was tough then. She wanted to get back together but i didnt want to take the risk again. I finally got over her.
Thereafter we met a couple times and hung out. I didnt make a move cause i just wanted to be friends. shortly after that if she'd see me online, she would immediately put her away message. shortly she stopped going online and so did I. A couple weeks ago i called and we met up. Even then when i saw her online it was ok to talk to her. And again I just want to be friends with her. And since then whenever I go online she puts her away message up.
sigh..i have a hard time being friends with girls.