"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do or don't?

Thatfeel21

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ok..i was casually talking to this girl id say a HB6 and shes giving me IOIs...

(playing with her hair, answering my casual questions and asking them back,

laughing at dumb **** i said (my humor wasnt even on point today lol), and

she unmistakenly had this smile and look in her eye like wow this guy is

pretty damn cool...do you ever call her out on it? im talking when you know

in your gut that shes at least mildly attracted to you, would it be to ****y to

chuckle and say something like "Haa, i can tell by your bodylanguage and

everything that you're kinda feeling me.." and just see how she reacts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I get those feelings but, I don't call her out. I just let it play out.
 

JDA70

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No point in calling her out on it.
Just go for the e-mail address and or number.
 

comic_relief

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don't call her out, just go for the number.

comic_relief
 

no_longer_afc

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Thatfeel21 said:
"Haa, i can tell by your bodylanguage and everything that you're kinda feeling me.." and just see how she reacts?
Personally this doesn't sound like the right idea, it would be better to get her number first in my opinion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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