"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thatfeel21

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ok..i was casually talking to this girl id say a HB6 and shes giving me IOIs...

(playing with her hair, answering my casual questions and asking them back,

laughing at dumb **** i said (my humor wasnt even on point today lol), and

she unmistakenly had this smile and look in her eye like wow this guy is

pretty damn cool...do you ever call her out on it? im talking when you know

in your gut that shes at least mildly attracted to you, would it be to ****y to

chuckle and say something like "Haa, i can tell by your bodylanguage and

everything that you're kinda feeling me.." and just see how she reacts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I get those feelings but, I don't call her out. I just let it play out.
 

JDA70

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No point in calling her out on it.
Just go for the e-mail address and or number.
 

comic_relief

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don't call her out, just go for the number.

comic_relief
 

no_longer_afc

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Thatfeel21 said:
"Haa, i can tell by your bodylanguage and everything that you're kinda feeling me.." and just see how she reacts?
Personally this doesn't sound like the right idea, it would be better to get her number first in my opinion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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