"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do or don't?

Thatfeel21

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ok..i was casually talking to this girl id say a HB6 and shes giving me IOIs...

(playing with her hair, answering my casual questions and asking them back,

laughing at dumb **** i said (my humor wasnt even on point today lol), and

she unmistakenly had this smile and look in her eye like wow this guy is

pretty damn cool...do you ever call her out on it? im talking when you know

in your gut that shes at least mildly attracted to you, would it be to ****y to

chuckle and say something like "Haa, i can tell by your bodylanguage and

everything that you're kinda feeling me.." and just see how she reacts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I get those feelings but, I don't call her out. I just let it play out.
 

JDA70

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No point in calling her out on it.
Just go for the e-mail address and or number.
 

comic_relief

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don't call her out, just go for the number.

comic_relief
 

no_longer_afc

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Thatfeel21 said:
"Haa, i can tell by your bodylanguage and everything that you're kinda feeling me.." and just see how she reacts?
Personally this doesn't sound like the right idea, it would be better to get her number first in my opinion.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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